At a gathering of friends last week, I heard my best friend complaining about a colleague, she often likes to trouble people, let others pay for it and contribute, but she doesn't think so, for a long time, once you complain, she will go around saying that you are calculating.
My girlfriend felt very tired, but because she was in an office and couldn't tear her face, she was very distressed.
In the journey of life, everyone will meet a variety of people.
Some bring us joy and positive energy, while others leave us feeling tired and depressed.
Best-selling author Li Shanglong once said: The wrong people can only consume each other's lives; Only by embracing the right person can we nourish each other.
In fact,When we reach middle age, we should know how to stay away from those who make us spend our energy.
This is not only because people are not as energetic as young people in middle age and cannot withstand consumption, but also because at this stage of middle age, we should pay more attention to our inner needs and health.
And those who consume us are often the ones who consume our energy and time.
There will always be people in every unit who like to tell others about their bad things in their own homes, complaining about their misfortunes and troubles.
Instead of following their negative energy to get depressed, stay away from them and focus your time and energy on the positives. After all, it's their life, not yours.
No one likes to be controlled, restrained, their seemingly well-intentioned persuasion is actually another way of control, which is easy to generate pressure in our hearts, which in turn affects our decision-making and judgment.
For example, there are often friends who habitually pour cold water on others. Originally, you want to learn a new skill, but his sentence "It's useless, it's a waste of time" often makes you very unhappy, and then you can't face it with a positive attitude.
When we reach middle age, we should learn to take responsibility for ourselves, choose our own path, and have the courage to take new steps.
Keeping your distance from those who like to be in the middle of the crowd and control means giving yourself more space and freedom.
They take our time for granted and keep asking us for it, and we don't get what we deserve in return, like best friends' colleagues.
In middle age, our energy should be mainly focused on things that are valuable to us, and improve the quality of life by constantly improving ourselves.
Staying away from those who will only consume us can create more space for ourselves to pursue a better life.
In general, middle age is an important stage in a person's life, and we shoulder the heavy responsibility of supporting the elderly and raising children, and at the same time, we need to improve our careers.
Therefore, we should make good use of energy and time to improve value and efficiency. And only when we stay away from those who make us spend our energy, can we have more energy, pursue our dreams and happiness, and live our own wonderful life!
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