When you live alone, your life becomes concrete, and it is precisely because of the concreteness that you can easily feel a faint pleasure.What does living alone mean for adults?A Year in Iceland Alone
A: Be yourself.
Today, I would like to share with you the life of a 42-year-old female writer who has lived alone for 12 years, has a small house, several cute cats, and countless plants.
For such a title as "older young woman", Windy said lightly:
If I was 20 years old, I would still care about these unwarranted labels, but in my 40s, I have long understood that life is real and belongs to me, not to other people's mouths.
Raise your hands in favor.
In the daily home photos she shares, you can feel one emotion, and that is calm.
As the saying goes, "one person, one room, one teacup, and you have to live for half a day", it is so beautiful.
Without further ado, let's take a look.
Who understands the gold content of these words: rainy day, home, alone.
The sound of rain is a wonderful white noise gifted by nature, and breathing in the wet air will make people happy.
Windy has always loved rainy days, staying at home, standing alone on the balcony, listening to the sound of the rain, looking at the blurred scenery outside the window, time seems to stand still at this moment.
The balcony at home is full of all kinds of flowers and plants, and whenever he is tired of writing, Windy will choose to stay with the plants.
In her opinion, each leaf has its own unique texture, each flower has its attitude of blooming and closing, and each stem has its different direction of extension.
Windy herself said that when she comes into contact with plants, she doesn't have too many distractions, and slowly, she forgets all her worries.
The charm of plants lies in their amazing vitality, as long as you give them plenty of sunlight and water, you can see them growing desperately upwards without any fear.
Windy draws energy from plants, and when the mind can sink into the plant world, wisdom will slowly arise.
Every time I lean down, quietly observe each plant, and marvel at its beauty, Windy feels happy inside.
Every morning, she spends an hour tending to the plants, and in the process, she slowly comes to her senses and is better able to devote herself to the day's writing.
Living alone often also means low materialism, no longer chasing trends, and everything is based on practicality.
These flower shelves on the living room balcony are all made by Windy himself, buy some finished planks and come back, according to the desired height, just nail them together.
Windy spends most of the day at his desk, and the living room is rightfully devoid of a TV.
Later, in order to occasionally watch old movies, I still bought a projector, which does not take up space, which is very convenient.
There are also a few potted plants in the display cabinet on the side, as well as some old antiques collected by Windy, a sense of life and art, all of which are available here.
The Windy family has three super beautiful kittens, and has also set aside a south-facing bedroom with cat climbing frames, slides, and cat nests, which are their "amusement park".
In order to protect the flowers and plants, Windy still selectively placed some plants in high places.
Plants and pets can bring more energy than you can imagine, and they have a clean magnetic field that will make you feel relaxed and happy right away, Windy said.
The area of the bedroom is relatively large, and the study is also located here.
Windy's daily life is very simple, writing, raising flowers, raising cats, no chicken feathers in a married life, no messy interpersonal relationships.
This kind of peace is not something that every adult can have!
After looking at her home, I found that there is no standard answer in life, marriage has the advantages of marriage, and living alone also has the advantages of living alone.
Whichever lifestyle you choose, the key is to suit yourself.
And whether you live alone or not, understand:
We must learn to live a real life, live in specific days, and not live in the fantasy of only being beautiful.
You have to learn to love yourself, and loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Encourage it. end—