Trauma is an experience, not a punishment, don't belittle, deny, and punish yourself for the setbacks and traumas you have suffered;
Reorganize your mood and life, and continue on the road with the pain and maturity left by this trauma.
Every wound is a metamorphosis, and every healing is a growth.
Slowly, our hearts become less soft, and we no longer care so much about other people's eyes and words.
Some people think you're cold, some people think you're ruthless, but you won't explain it anymore.
Because you understand people who don't understand you, no amount of explanation will help.
Don't be afraid of getting hurt, and don't be afraid of getting hurt because it's a must for everyone to grow.
When you have been baptized by trauma and completely transformed, you will be grateful to those who have caused you harm, and their appearance has made you so good.
When the wind and rain come urgently, we should never be afraid, and in the long howling wind, even if the body is full of wounds, we will not retreat.
The journey of life is like climbing a steep mountain, flying sand and rocks, lightning and thunder, hanging sand and gravel cut our skin, wear out our bones, and before reaching the top of the mountain, we are already scarred.
At this time, only by standing up from the wind and rain and using your back to prop up the thunder and lightning can you mature in pain.
In fact, no one likes pain, life is like a heavy iron door, and everyone wants to push it open easily.
This is not the case, we have to use all our strength, grit our teeth and persevere, until we push open the iron door, only to find that the bones of our body have long been deformed, and the worn wounds have also scabbed.
You stand at a new apex, and that's maturation.
We must learn not to be defeated by the setbacks we have suffered, and we must have the courage to face them.
Every setback will make our hearts stronger, every suffering will make our minds mature, and every brave face will make us learn to be mellow and flexible.
No one wants to encounter pain, and pain is a roadstone that can be seen everywhere on everyone's growth path.
If the growth is a rose, then the pain is the jagged thorns that accompany the branches of the rose.
If you want to have the beauty of roses, you must learn to face the thorns that pierce your hands.
A mature life has experienced the baptism of setbacks and the invasion of suffering.
If you want to mature in life, you must learn to face setbacks.
Because after trauma, there is ...... maturity
Pain is a kind of growth, a kind of maturity.
In other words, it is only after tasting the sufferings of life that we can become mature.