Parents have always been a topic of great concern about their children's education, and they are eager for their children to receive high-quality education and grow up healthily, rather than losing in the fierce competition. However, there is an insurmountable gap between ideals and reality, and parents' expectations are often different from the reality. Too utilitarianism has led to the emergence of the "chicken baby" phenomenon, which has increased the learning pressure of students. This article will focus on Tsinghua professors' analysis of Chinese-style education, ** the educational relationship between parents and students, which resonates.
Parents eagerly expect their children to have the best resources and development space in education, but the reality is often the opposite. Parents' expectations for their children often only stay on the slogan of "study hard and make progress every day", ignoring the importance of cultivating children's happy growth. However, even if a child studies hard and gains knowledge and skills, he or she may face the cruel test of the real world after graduation. They may find that even if they work hard, life is still difficult and they have to become "workers". This phenomenon has caused a professor at Tsinghua University to think deeply, and he pointed out that the modern education system pays more attention to cultivating the skills of "making money", and neglects the ability to cultivate happiness and joy. Parents want their children to have a happy life, but they do not teach their children how to be happy, which leads to a situation where "all the people who are trained are migrant workers".
The gap between parents' expectations and reality has resonated with society, and many people have begun to reflect on the problems existing in the education system. Some people lament that happiness is forced to delay, and some people feel that children have lost their inner light in the process of growing up, leaving only exhaustion and anxiety. However, it has also been pointed out that happiness without a material basis is illusory, and that happiness can only be talked about if you have enough money. In the eyes of most families, being able to ensure that their children have enough to eat, receive a good education, and find a stable job is already the greatest happiness. Therefore, it is also a realistic joy for children to work hard under pressure and strive to achieve their dreams.
The problems of the education system did not arise overnight, but stemmed from misunderstandings and biases about the purpose of education. Parents often place too much emphasis on their children's academic performance and neglect their children's mental health and personality development. Professor Tsinghua pointed out that there is a serious mismatch between the goals and training methods set by the education system and the needs of society, which leads to confusion and confusion among students after entering the society. Parents should take a correct view of their children's growth, understand their children's personality and interests, and give them more care and support, rather than simply measuring their children's value based on academic performance. Parents need to understand that happy education is not a laissez-faire education, but on the basis of ensuring learning, focusing on cultivating children's interests and personality characteristics, so that they can thrive in a pleasant atmosphere.
The essence of education is to guide students to learn actively, rather than passively receiving knowledge. An educational environment that allows students to grow up happily should be a world of entertaining and pedagogical, full of the joy of knowledge and the joy of exploration. Parents should take the initiative to communicate with the school, teachers and children to understand their children's learning situation and psychological needs, and give them more support and inspiration, so that they can grow in exploration and be happy in learning. Therefore, it is the key to promote the healthy development of education to correctly guide parents' educational concepts and let them understand that each child is a unique individual and has his own light and potential.
Parents are indispensable guides on their children's growth path, and their words and deeds have a particularly important impact on their children. Parents should understand that it is more important to cultivate children's interests and hobbies than to ask children to blindly pursue high scores. Parents need to listen patiently to their children's voices, understand their needs and expectations, and give them support and encouragement. Instead of forcing children to learn actively, guide them to discover and explore areas of interest so that they can find joy and confidence as they grow.
Parents' care should not stop at academic performance, but also pay attention to their children's physical and mental health. They should create a relaxed and pleasant family atmosphere where children dare to express their thoughts and emotions without having to be bothered by the pressure of studying. The role of parents is not only to be a strict teacher, but also to be a caring partner, to grow up with their children, to understand each other, and to enjoy the fun of life together. In this process, parents should understand that a happy education is not achieved overnight, and requires patience and careful care, only in this way can children thrive.
Education is a complex and profound undertaking that requires the joint efforts of parents and society to cultivate the next generation that is truly happy, has values, and has the ability to think independently. Parents should deeply reflect on their own education methods, not only pursuing their children's academic performance, but focusing on cultivating their personality and interests, so that they can thrive in happiness. The education system also needs to continue to reform and innovate, and establish a more humane evaluation system, so that every child has a platform to show themselves. Only in this way can we build a better and more fulfilling educational environment, so that every child can grow up healthy and happy.