Dear readers, hello! Not long ago, actor Du Chun and his wife Wang Can's baby daughter Xiao Dan Dumpling's performance in school attracted public enthusiasm**. This cute little girl, with her series of seemingly contradictory and cute reactions, reveals to us the inner struggles that children experience in the process of growing up. In this blog post, I'd like to share some analysis of this phenomenon and some suggestions on how to better help them meet these challenges.
First of all, let's recall the scene when Xiao Dan Dumpling entered school: before she entered kindergarten, she showed obvious resistance; However, once he arrived at the school gate, he suddenly showed a mature attitude and accepted the fact that the school had started. This instantaneous change reflects the emotional fluctuations in the child's heart. Their fear and uneasiness about the unfamiliar environment and the existence of unknown things, coupled with their curiosity about the new air, constitute a complex emotional matrix. In this process, without the companionship, support and guidance of parents in the right way, it is difficult for children to get through this special period smoothly. Therefore, as parents, it is our responsibility to pay attention to every subtle change in our children, help them solve the doubts in their minds, and make them more confident and calm when facing the new environment.
Second, we should recognize that homeschooling is more than just financial support. No matter how good a child's aptitude or how ordinary his or her performance is, what we need to do is to give them love and care. Xiao Dan Dumpling's performance in school has attracted everyone's attention and criticism, however, we cannot ignore another problem reflected in it - how to strike a balance between love and discipline. The role of parents is crucial in this process: we must not only love our children unconditionally, but also guide them in the right way. Blind doting may make children unable to integrate into society because they lose their sense of self-reliance; Excessive high pressure can hurt a child's self-esteem and emotional development. Therefore, we must carefully study the psychological needs of children and learn to regulate their behavior at the right time.
Thirdly, we need to clearly understand that each person is a unique individual. In the process of helping children resolve their inner confusion, we need to learn to teach children according to their aptitude and formulate corresponding educational strategies according to their personality preferences. We should not only care about the trivial things of children's lives, but also pay attention to their heart's desires. As parents, we should be the mentors and guardians of our children, and tell them with actions that when you encounter difficulties or confusion, Mom and Dad will always stand by your side to support you.
Entering the information age, social networking has deeply penetrated into our daily life. However, while enjoying the conveniences, we should also be aware of the negative effects it brings. Especially in the area of family life, over-reliance on social interactions** can lead to neglect real family interactions, and even have unpredictable consequences. Parents must keep a clear head in this regard. While sharing the happy moments of parent-child, we should also try to dig out the stories behind them, and beware of letting social ** dilute our intimate relationships in reality. It is our responsibility to act as a shield against the negative influence of the outside world and ensure the healthy growth of children.
Finally, I would like to emphasize that as parents, we must have the motherland in our hearts and the people in our eyes, consciously integrate the growth of our children with the development of the country, and pay attention to helping them establish lofty ideals and cultivate patriotic feelings from an early age. They need to thrive in an environment full of love and care so that they can shoulder the great mission of promoting the prosperity and strength of their country in the future.
Therefore, dear parents and friends, let us work together to accompany our children through every stage of life with a correct and scientific attitude, so that they can become caring and self-reliant people. Let's look forward to the future society becoming better because of their efforts!