If you have adolescent children in the family, you must pay attention to the "toxic friendship" between adolescent children. What is "toxic friendship"? The so-called "poisonous friendship" means that one person in the friendship will bring the other person badly.
I once saw an example of a person who said that when he was in school, there was a girl who had very good grades and was very good-looking and transferred to their class, and she had a particularly good relationship with the "bad students" in their class.
Among those "bad students" was herself, but she was still young at the time, and she didn't think about influencing others. It didn't take long for that girl to blend in more and more into their circle, and her grades got worse and worse. In the end, her high school entrance examination results could not go up, so she could only go to vocational school.
Therefore, it is important to make friends when you are in school. Bad friends will affect your grades, affect your study habits, and make your grades plummet. We can find a very interesting phenomenon, when a student is mischievous, most of his friends are naughty. When a student is excellent, most of her friends are also excellent.
I watched a variety show, and a child in the variety show has a friend who has a particularly good relationship. The two of them have similar grades, so they push each other academically and catch up with each other. Outside of school, the two of them talk to each other and are very good friends.
There is a good balance between friendship and academics, and this friendship is what parents want to see. They are carrying out a benign "comparison" in their studies and improving their enthusiasm for learning. They will also study the questions of the test papers together after the exam, and exchange learning experiences during the review, which kind of good friend parents don't want their children to have?
The child is young, and he is not cautious in making friends, but more in his own heart. She likes any friend who can be happy with her, but she doesn't know that some friends will ruin her life. As the guide of their children's life path, parents must tell their children how to make friends correctly.
I recommend parents to take their children to read "Friendship and Happiness", most children do not listen to what parents say to their children. It is better to let the child slowly understand what the parents want to tell her through books. From the perspective of teenagers, this book tells children a lot about making friends. The content is not boring, and there are many interesting illustrations, so children can also read with interest when they have nothing to do.
Friendship and Happiness is a book that tells children what a real friend is, and what kind of friends they want to make. Good friendship can make children become better and better, but bad friendships can make children more and more depraved, and "Friendship and Happiness" will also tell children one by one in the way of example storytelling. This book will not only tell your child how to make friends, but also what to do if they get into trouble making friends.
In particular, this book provides detailed guidance on school violence, which parents are particularly worried about. It tells children how to defend themselves against school violence. It also tells the child what she should do if her friend has been subjected to school violence. It tells the child to be a good and upright person, and tells the child to be brave and strong.
Friendship and Happiness is one of a series of books in the Hello, Adolescence series. This set of books is especially suitable for adolescent children, it can be a guide on the road of children's growth, telling children what happened during adolescence, how to deal with it, how to solve it.
This set of books explains children's learning, thinking, physiology, etc., so that children do not panic when they encounter things. When the child is in adolescence, giving the child this book can make the child develop better and better, whether it is in terms of grades or conduct, I believe that the child's learning and conduct will be excellent.
For example, in the book "The Secret of Adolescence", children are told how their bodies will change, and this is the way for everyone. This book will also tell children what they can and can't do, so that they don't go astray in their good youth.
The book "My Family" is like a beacon that illuminates the depths of children's hearts, guiding them to explore the world of their parents and understand the deep and warm love. It teaches children how to build a harmonious relationship with their parents, like a drizzle of rain that moistens the earth, making the family atmosphere warm and soothing. This book is a valuable asset for children to grow up and a guardian of family harmony.
In the book "Me and the Internet", for example, children learn how to use the Internet wisely and prudently. The book vividly compares the Internet to a sharp double-edged sword, which can bring endless knowledge and convenience to people, but also bring trouble and harm. Through such metaphors, children learn how to enjoy the benefits of the Internet while also being wary of its potential risks, so as to build healthy online habits.
Hello, Adolescence can help children from different perspectives and put forward good opinions to make children walk smoothly in adolescence. If you have an adolescent child at home, be sure to take her to read Hello, Adolescence.
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