The ancient fist commented on the clouds: "How do you know that the gods will meet with qi, and the essence will gather with the spirits, and if you want to gather the spirits, you can't gather the spirits." ”
In martial arts**, a person can be angry and dantian, and he can make his whole body full of strength, or send all his power to a certain part as he wants.
In real life, a person can gather the power around him, concentrate his own strength to a certain point, and then he can gather momentum.
As the saying goes, "If you don't have diamonds, don't do porcelain work." ”Strength is the diamond of life. Therefore, if you want to do one thing, or promote your ideals, you must learn to concentrate your strength, and don't "overlord hard bow".
With the help of the whole family, you can support one person.
Speaking of Su Qin, many people will think that he was not favored by the King of Qin, sold his clothes and carriage, and returned home like a beggar.
His wife ignored him, his sister-in-law didn't cook for him, and his parents complained.
It seems that Su Qin's family is scattered, and no one supports his "diplomatic theory".
After rational analysis, you will find that when Su Qin was young, his parents tried to let him go to school and worship Guiguzi as a teacher. When Su Qin was about to go to Qin, his parents sold part of the land in exchange for travel expenses.
When Su Qin was studying, his family was working and trying to solve his worries about eating.
Without a decent family, it would be difficult for Su Qin to succeed. Maybe you don't even have the opportunity to read.
After a thousand years, many families are still trying their best to support a "reader". Many post-60s and post-70s generations may have had such an experience: in order to ensure that a child in the family goes to college, children with average grades give up the opportunity to go to high school or technical school.
When we reach middle age, we look like we are fighting alone, but in fact, our family members are supportive. Women do housework, parents take care of their children, and husbands go to work, which is a true manifestation of concerted efforts."Zengguang Xianwen" said: "There are thousands of families and one person in charge." ”
One person is in charge, and all the people revolve around him, and it will soon be fruitful. The backbone of the heart will be prominent, and the family will be prosperous.
Concentrate on a lifetime of time, and the ideal can be successful.
The ancients left a saying: "Seven years old sees old." ”
From the child's words and deeds, we can discover his ideals and know what he will become in the future.
There was a child who "studied for the rise of China", and later he became the leader of the masses.
There was a child who, in order to save his companion who had fallen into the water, smashed the water tank and later became the prime minister.
There is a child, raised by his grandmother since he was a child, very filial, when his grandmother was old, he refused to be an official, and when his grandmother died, he was in officialdom and was highly respected.
When we reach the age of seventy or eighty, and then look at the road we have walked, we will find that every step is not in vain, and the starting point of life begins at the age of seven or eight.
Those who have achieved great things have been very assertive and directional since childhood. There may be some detours, but we will definitely get back on the right path.
Writer Jia Pingwa wrote in the article: "When you are fifty years old, you will understand that people can't do a few things in their lives, and everything they do is to find their own place. ”Decades, it's really not long, if you look in the east and walk around in the west, you will not become an all-round person, but a person who has nothing to do. As long as you insist on using your time to your ideals, you will continue to surpass yourself.
Focus on one thing, and small things can turn into big things.
When Confucius was out on a wandering, he met a cicada catcher.
Confucius was amazed to see his skillful technique.
The cicada catcher said that he spent five or six months practicing basic techniques; It took a lot of effort and practice.
Confucius said with emotion"There is no distinction between will, but condensed in God, and its rickety man is what it means!" ”
In fact, Confucius was also a cicada catcher - a lifetime of energy, mainly used to teach and educate people, so that everyone in the world can know the truth. Even when Confucius was an official, he did not forget to teach by word and deed.
For example, when Lu Guo's horse shed caught fire, he did not punish anyone, but asked if anyone was injured. People are more important than possessions.
Some seemingly inconspicuous things, if you think it through, will become a big thing, and even change society. For example, Marie Curie, who invented radium, has a content of one part per billion in the earth's crust, but her life is remarkable.
As an ordinary person, you can make great achievements by concentrating on researching and making glutinous rice cakes, repairing houses, sweeping floors, etc.
Many people complain that there is no way out in life, but in fact, they don't concentrate their energy, and they are always too ambitious to ignore the small things around them.
If you love someone with all your heart, you will be very happy in the second half of your life.
Love, gathering and scattering is not strange, but gathering and scattering is impermanent, and it will be difficult to be peaceful for the rest of your life, and it may end up with a bleak ending in the evening.
The female writer Zhang Ailing fell in love with Hu Lancheng, who had a family, although the two of them achieved positive results, but they were scarred, and later woke up and remarried Lai Ya, so that the rest of her life could be peaceful.
Many men envy the ancients, who could have three wives and four concubines, but did not know the scourge. For example, Sima Xiangru fell in love with Zhuo Wenjun, and his life slowly improved, but because of his change of heart, he almost ruined his family.
Cartoonist ** Yong said: "A woman spends her life in order to find someone she loves, and at the same time to prevent other women from finding him." ”Regardless of men and women, love is very selfish, and there is only one person who can be tolerated in the heart, and if there are more, it will be "heartbreaking".
If you want to love like a fish in water, you must focus the warmth of your heart on a certain person, and never give up for the rest of your life.
The ancients invented a word called "阖", which means "closed".
If you want to concentrate your strength, understand the word "closed".
Closing the door is the embodiment of the concentration of family strength.
Closing freely is the embodiment of full control over life.
Wishing is the best arrangement and ending in life.
A good life is a process of closed-loop management - seeking wealth externally and happiness internally. When people reach their old age, close the extra doors and windows, and take back all the achievements, they will be full of blessings.
Concentrate on strength, retract and release freely, the power is in the first, and the effect is in the first.