Tommy thinks that from a psychological perspective, people who do good deeds can be roughly divided into three categories:
The first type is the refined egoists, who always start from the perspective of self-interest in order to maximize their own interests, they are selfish, chasing fame and fortune, they believe that the emotions and human nature in the world are far less reliable and reliable than fame and fortune.
The second type is the ambivalent personality, on the one hand, they are kind and willing to give, and have a strong sense of compassion, but at the same time they belong to the kind of people who are more willing to give, they give emotional and material things, and they also have very high expectations for the recipients. They crave affirmation, gratitude, and even reciprocation, but they cannot tolerate indifference or treachery on the part of their recipients.
The third type is selfless dedication, their giving, dedication, and good deeds are just the most simple psychological and physiological instincts, not an investment, so they don't care about the attitude and feedback of the beneficiaries, what they pursue and enjoy is the peace of mind and sense of accomplishment when they help them.
Combining the above three types of people, Tommy's most intuitive feeling is that good deeds should be a two-way street, not against one's heart. For the second type of contradictory people, instead of doing good deeds in this kind of masochism and internal friction, and then distorting their mentality, it is better to be a refined egoist like the first type of people, starting from their own interests, neither giving nor owing, so that they can feel at ease.
The third type of selfless dedication type of people, their essence is like the current giant panda, on the one hand, they are the product of the times, and naturally they will become more and more rare with the changes of the years, and even extinction. Such talents are the product of a harmonious and dedicated socialist family, rather than the current materialistic society. Behind their belief that they are not greedy and that they are happy with dedication are driven by spirit and faith, rather than being the product of the market economy.