Wen Xiamo. Life, if it is a play, everyone is a screenwriter and can decide their own script.
No matter what kind of life you have, you actually write it yourself.
Manage interpersonal relationships well, have a strong heart, and treat people with their own demeanor and pattern, and the drama of life will be more exciting.
There is such a kind of woman who never flatters herself too much when she gets along with others. Rather, know how to be "lazy".
Through "laziness", giving others the opportunity to grow, but also giving others the opportunity to learn to take responsibility, which is more conducive to the management of feelings.
Why is it that the more "lazy" a woman is, the more blessed she is?
Once, I went to my aunt's house for dinner.
After eating, she sat down on the sofa, glanced at the dining table, and then at her aunt.
The eldest aunt immediately understood: "I'll clean up, I'll brush it." ”
Two people talk about it, one cooks, and the other washes the dishes.
One night, the aunt had work to do, and the aunt explained: "Watering the flowers, changing the water for the fish, and mopping the floor are all his work, and he said it was good." ”
Both of them are in their sixties, and like children, they are divided into "health responsibility areas".
If, suddenly, there is no stipulation on who does the work, two people will also rock-paper-scissors, and whoever loses will do it.
The family atmosphere at the aunt's house is very good, and the husband and wife get along very interestingly.
A lazy woman knows how to let a man share the burden and guide him to pay for the family.
Yang Jiang said: "Later, we learned that those who have a good temper are angry, those who are empathetic are understanding, no one can take care of people, and those who can cry have candy to eat." Those who are sensible, on the contrary, no one will feel distressed. ”If a woman puts all the housework on herself, she has a reputation of being virtuous and diligent, but she becomes the most tired person in the family.
If two people take on the housework together, no one will be too tired, and they will not feel that they have worked too much at home and have been wronged.
Moreover, because of the other party's dedication, they will feel taken care of and treated gently, and the relationship will develop more stable.
Zhao Na in "Little Shede" was spoiled as a "princess" by her family.
When he and Nan Jianlong were not divorced, Nan Jianlong was in charge of all the work at home and abroad.
She doesn't change the quilt by herself, and after the divorce, her daughter will help her with housework and accompany her often.
In the eyes of others, she is a "lazy woman", however, she has more time to take care of herself and live a comfortable life leisurely.
Being appropriately lazy is not a bad thing.
Learn to be lazy in family affairs, but subcontracting the affairs of children and husbands is more conducive to their growth and independence.
Huang Zhizhong said: "The sense of sacrifice is a dangerous thing in intimate relationships. ”A woman who knows how to be lazy, doesn't run around for others, and knows how to love herself.
No matter what others say, life is your own.
People who know how to love themselves can live a chic and calm life and have a better life.
If a man always wants to be a "hands-off shopkeeper", a woman can also learn to be lazy, communicate with men, divide responsibilities, and let everyone make some contributions to the family.
There must be a sense of proportion in the interaction between people.
Zhou Guoping said: "The sense of proportion is a sign of mature love, which knows how to observe the necessary distance between people in interpersonal communication. ”One of the biggest characteristics of women is that they "love to worry".
A lot of work that doesn't belong to her at all, and she likes to rush to get it done.
I am used to accumulating a lot of work on myself, and I am tired and have a sore back at the end of the day.
In fact, sometimes doing other people's things and pleasing others does not necessarily get the gratitude of others.
Chances are, others will think she's nosy.
To be a person and treat interpersonal relationships, you must have a sense of proportion.
It's not your job, don't promise others easily, consider your actual ability, and arrange a plan for the day.
No matter how good the relationship with others is, don't overly please and don't meddle too much.
If you know how to let go and manage your own life, your life will be easier and it will be easier to maintain a good mood.
People, lazy, will be more blessed.
If a woman is lazy, her husband will be more responsible and more dependent on his wife and children.
If you are lazy, the child will be more independent and will not "find her mother" for everything. Children will know how to tidy up their own rooms, organize themselves, and can develop better habits.
Women know how to be "lazy" appropriately, which will make the family more harmonious and get along with each other more warmly.
If a family works hard to maintain the family, life will develop in a better direction.
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