1. Insight into people's hearts, for my use
Ordinary people only pay attention to their own needs, while masters can gain insight into the preferences of others, understand the inner world of others, and see through the bottom line of others. They know how to adapt to the needs of others and harness the strength of others to achieve their goals.
2. Words are the sword, and they are controlled by me
Ordinary people speak only out of their own will, but wise people can achieve their goals through words. Their words are not only expressions of their own thoughts, but also well-designed tools to achieve their own ends.
3. Words of praise to bring the relationship closer:
Masters don't do tricks, they don't go against the grain, but they use praise, praise, and praise to make others think they are confidants. They know how to recognize others, help others, and achieve others in order to achieve their goals. They are better at listening and avoid raising objections because this is exactly what others need, and all they seek is to build a good relationship with others.
Fourth, the method of resonance to achieve the goal:
Masters use empathy, finding common ground with others, and establishing emotional connections to achieve their goals. They know how to empathize with others and understand their feelings so that they can better achieve their goals.