It has been said, "A pleasant life is brought about by pleasant thoughts, and pleasant thoughts are produced by an optimistic personality." ”
Optimistic people can live well no matter what, while pessimistic people, no matter what, can't live well in this life.
People live to be happy. When you can make having fun a habit, you win.
There are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, sickness and death, resentment, love and separation, can't ask for it, and can't let go.
Everything will tear our hearts apart, depress life, and make life miserable. We must learn to look down, see through, see through, see open, smile indifferently, and manage the current life with interest.
How can life be more satisfying, everything is only half satisfied.
Solve things when you encounter them, and if you can't solve them, accept the worst. There is no need for mental exhaustion and repeated entanglement.
Troubles have no roots, and if you don't pick them up, you won't have them. Pain has no source, and it is not easy to investigate.
Let go of unrealistic expectations, reduce your own desires, and don't care about other people's attitudes towards you, you will reduce a lot of worries and face the ups and downs of life with ease.
Some people say: "Life is like a boat, there are tailwinds and countercurrents, and mentality is the rudder of life." Along the way, there are gains and losses, there are joys and pains, only by having a broad, positive and healthy attitude can people better face all kinds of challenges and tribulations in life, so that they can be calm and calm in the face of love. ”
In 1079, Su Shi encountered the Wutai poetry case, from a scholar with a high level of Bo, overnight to a prisoner, and later was relegated to the remote and desolate Huangzhou, never hired.
Su Shi's mentality is very good, since fate has hit him into a trough, he is at ease in the trough, entertaining himself, and he has lived a wonderful life of others crying and wiping tears.
The more difficult life is, the more you need an optimistic and open-minded mindset. It's like the darker the night, the more you need a bright moon as clear as snow. Everyone's pot has ashes, everyone's life has tribulations, and an optimistic attitude is a beam of sunshine shining into the cracks, so that the crappy life is still full of vitality.
In his later years, Tang Bohu had no relatives, no friends, lonely and desolate, financially constrained, and riddled with illness, but he did not give up on himself and was depressed, but lived in ten miles of peach blossoms, drank and wrote poems, drunk and enjoyed the beautiful scenery.
One of his poems has been passed down through the ages:
Others laugh at me for being crazy, and I laugh at others for not being able to see through it. I don't see the tomb of Wu Wuling heroes, and there are no flowers and no wine hoes. ”
Live according to his own ideas, live as chic as he wants, and what others think of it is his business. You see, those heroes and heroes who are powerful and invincible have all become dry bones buried in the loess, and there is nothing left. The end of life is death, and since the limit is inevitable, why not live every day happily.
We may not be able to control our own destiny, but we can control our attitude towards destiny, calmly accept everything that happens in life, and do everything possible to make ourselves happy.
In this life, the red stripes come and the red stripes go, and nothing can be taken away. Instead of calculating everything for the things outside the body, it is better to experience this hard-won life seriously with a frank and unswaying heart.