My cousin, who has been a criminal lawyer for 21 years, said that the ** files he handles can fill a room of dozens of square meters. Almost 25 out of every 100 women are assaulted, and about 90 percent of women have swallowed the bitter pill. They are afraid that no one will believe them. These cases are varied, and although the methods are different, most of them have an underlying pattern.
When a woman is violated, silence should be by far the first reaction of most women.
He told me some cases that really impressed me, and I was really blown away.
First, a review of real cases.
Lu Ying is a very beautiful girl, she is a young girl who has just graduated and has just come to work in this strange city.
There are no relatives or friends around, and my parents ask Uncle Huang Xing to take care of Lu Ying.
At the beginning, Lu Ying felt that Uncle Huang was a very good person and cared about her, and invited Lu Ying to his house every week.
Lu Ying felt that he was like an uncle, giving me some comfort in this strange city.
However, as time went on, she found that Lao Huang was a little excessive. He often moves his hands and feet.
Lu Ying felt very uncomfortable, but he was Lu Ying's elder, and Lu Ying couldn't say anything, so she could only choose to endure it silently.
Until one day, Lao Huang's wife was on a business trip, and he invited Lu Ying to his house for dinner.
During the meal, he began to say something excessive.
Lu Ying felt disgusted, but she still tried to stay calm and try not to show anything as much as possible.
However, after eating, when Lu Ying was washing the dishes, he suddenly moved, Lu Ying felt very scared, and despite his struggle, he forced Lu Ying to have a relationship with him.
After this incident, Lu Ying felt very desperate. Lu Ying didn't know what to do, feeling completely controlled. Lao Huang also filmed Lu Ying's **, threatening that if he dared to say it, Lu Ying would be ruined.
Every time Lao Huang called ** to Lu Ying, Lu Ying felt very uncomfortable, but Lu Ying didn't dare not answer. I feel trapped in a nightmare from which I can't escape. Later, the other party would often call her to the car or the hotel, and then force her to have sex.
She didn't dare to tell anyone, for fear of being condemned and ridiculed by society, she was considered a shameful person, Lu Ying was very sad, she didn't know what to do. She didn't dare to report the crime, for fear of becoming a laughing stock. She felt so lonely and hopeless that she couldn't confide her inner pain to anyone.
Second, why are women reluctant to call the police?
It reveals the problem that society's attitude towards victims is very wrong. We should support and encourage those who are brave enough to speak the truth, not condemn them. Committing a crime is an extremely serious crime that not only causes physical and psychological trauma to the victim, but also has a negative impact on society as a whole.
1.They are afraid of being hurt again, because many women can't afford to do more harm to themselves because of **.
If you resist strongly, you may do more harm and blow to yourself, and the bad guy will act excessively under the trend of desire.
Women are physically disadvantaged and unable to resist male attacks.
2.The saliva of the people around them will make them unable to hold their heads up for the rest of their lives.
After all, ** is only a temporary injury, and pointing fingers is a lifetime to follow, and women will think that silence is the best protection for themselves. No one knows about it without mentioning it, and no one laughs at it. I can't stand the strange eyes of others all my life, so I don't have the courage to face harm.
3.Fear of harm to their future.
This kind of thing is often speculated that the victim may be inappropriate and so on. blurted out malicious speculation, they will think that they will live in this kind of fingering in the future, their husbands, boyfriends, and people around them will dislike and disgust them. The price of not being able to hold their heads up for a lifetime made them choose to be silent.
4.I felt that it was painful to re-face the violations again and again after calling the police.
According to the informant, after calling the police, he had to reopen the scars again and again, keep retelling the scene at the time, introduce the examination of cold instruments, and face the ** criminal, and the torture again and again was unbearable. will be illegally violated, resulting in huge physical and mental trauma that is difficult to heal.
3. So, if a woman is unfortunate enough to be violated, she needs to do the following.
After encountering **, women are often in extreme fear and self-doubt, extremely fragile physically and mentally, and it is very difficult to sort out the emotional alarm.
Call the police as soon as possible.
1. Don't wash your body, rinse your mouth, comb your hair, urinate and change your clothes, and don't smoke or drink water.
While it is uncomfortable to do, any traces left on the body could be the key to sending the abuser to prison.
Keep the wiped tissues, towels and other remnants of the offender, and then hand them over.
It is also particularly important to retain evidence of "compulsion". If it is an acquaintance, stabilize the other party, try to communicate with the other party WeChat, text messages, **, take information against your will, take screenshots, and record audio. Before the police come, you can take pictures of the resistance on your body and the scene, and if it happens in the hotel, ask the service staff not to clean the room.
** take the victim to a designated hospital, ** take the victim to a qualified forensic appraisal institution to evaluate the physical trauma.
2. Receive psychological guidance.
Women will suffer a lot of tormenting processes, and symptoms of psychological stress will appear. Affects physical and mental health. A loved one must tell her that it's not your fault.
Helping women get out of trouble.
IV. Write at the end:
If you or someone close to you has suffered a crime, you should know that you are not alone. You can reach out to ** or a social service agency and they will help and support you. At the same time, we should also call on society to change the perception of victims of ** crimes, so that they can receive the respect and support they deserve.
In conclusion, criminalization is a serious problem that brings great harm to the victim and society as a whole. We need to take action to address this issue, but we also need to provide a supportive and safe environment for victims to come forward and speak the truth.
What do you think women should do when they are violated? Please give advice so that more women can protect themselves.
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