If you want to mix well in the workplace and not let yourself be bullied, then you have to learn to turn your faceYou must know that in the workplace, the more those who are always submissive, honest, submissive, and dare not turn their faces, the easier it is to be bullied by others, manipulated, and hurt their own interests.
So you remember, the more you dare to turn your face, the more others dare not bully you at will, this is human nature, even the leaders in the unit are like this, under normal circumstances, if you turn your face with the leader, then the leader will most likely choose to compromise and calm down, because he is tough with you, there is a high probability that it is not good for him, and he can't even get off the stage, so that he is discredited with authority, and it is not worth it at all.
Even if he has the upper hand, once this kind of thing gets out, it usually won't do him any good, and the result is usually much worse for him than for you. You have to know who the leaders are, and they don't know how to weigh the pros and cons, can he be a leader, right? Therefore, for those who dare to turn their faces, the leaders also have scruples, and they dare not bully easily.
But don't take it out of context, I'm telling you this, it's not that you can unscrupulously turn your face with the leader, so that the leader doesn't dare to bully you, I don't mean that, you have to understand the truth that people have to bow their heads first under the eaves, what I'm telling you is to dare to turn your face, but it doesn't mean that you can turn your face. You have to be clear about what the meaning of turning the face is, you must know that once you turn the face, the two sides will completely tear their faces, the relationship will be completely broken, and there will be no room for maneuver, which is equivalent to becoming an opposing contradiction between the enemy and me.
Although it is said that the leader can't tear each other hard with you, but he will play yin, he will give you the means, all kinds of calculations to fix you, you will soon be unable to stay, and even all the voices around you, all the contradictions will point to you and target you, so ah, you must remember that open guns are easy to dodge, and hidden arrows are difficult to prevent, you must know how to weigh the pros and cons.
You have to know what you can and can't do, and you have to know that the most effective way to deal with the leader is to let the leader know that you are a person who dares to turn his face, but you will not turn his face with him.
So how do you do that? That is, you have to turn your face with your colleagues in a timely manner, and prove by turning your face with your colleagues that you are not a soft persimmon, you are not easy to provoke, and if you do this, the leader will not deliberately target you, let alone easily bully you and encroach on your interests. At the same time, such people are often the object of the leadership.