From the "Law of the Slow Horse" to the "Matthew Effect": How to Find Yourself Between Reality and Ideals
Every night, I read "Xinhua Night Reading" to figure out and think about the classic sentences in Xinhua Night Reading articles. The article I read today is "The Amazing "Law of the Strong": Be Your Own Backer".
In the ocean of life, we are all sailors, sometimes with rough seas, sometimes with calm waves. I deeply feel that many times, we are not defeated by the pressure and difficulties of the outside world, but by our own confusion and powerlessness. However, when I read the article "The Amazing "Law of the Strong": Be Your Own Backer", I realized that only by becoming my biggest backer can I ride the wind and waves and move forward bravely in the voyage of life.
I was a person who was plagued by the "law of the slow horse". At work, I often fall into a state of confusion, feeling as if time is being stretched, and every day is long and boring. However, when I realized that my time was being wasted on meaningless chores, I began to reflect on my lifestyle. I realized that the real tiredness does not come from physical exhaustion, but from inner confusion. I started to work hard to adjust myself to make my life full and meaningful.
At the same time, I was also inspired by the "lazy ant effect". I began to realize that the depth of a person's thinking determines the height of his life. I began to try to leave some space for reflection in my busy life, so that I could calm down and think about the meaning and value of life. This habit of deep thinking has gradually freed me from the predicament of mediocrity, and it has also made me more and more determined on the road of life.
The "Matthew Effect" made me realize more deeply that my attitude towards life determines the direction of my life. When I face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, I find that life is full of beauty and opportunities; And when I face life with a negative, pessimistic attitude, I see endless difficulties and frustrations. I started to learn to adjust my attitude and keep myself positive at all times.
In real life, I have experienced all kinds of setbacks and difficulties. However, it was these experiences that made me realize more deeply that only by becoming my biggest supporter can I find myself between reality and ideals. I started to work hard to improve my abilities and qualities to make myself better and stronger. At the same time, I also began to pay attention to my inner world and make my soul richer and fuller.
In the voyage of life, we are all our own captains. We need to learn to take control of our course and keep ourselves firm and steady in the storm. We need to learn to leave some room for reflection in our busy lives and allow ourselves to calm down and listen to the deep voice of our souls. We need to learn to adjust our attitude so that we can always maintain a positive heart. Only in this way can we find ourselves between reality and ideals and become our biggest supporter.