Any good relationship needs to be based on mutual understanding, support and dedication from both parties. On the contrary, a relationship based on accusation, blame, and oppression is difficult to last.
*There is oppression, there is resistance. In marriage, too, when one party's demand for the other party becomes a kind of pressure, even to the point of moral kidnapping, it will inevitably cause an imbalance in the marriage balance, and divorce will become the end.
A good balance between giving and taking in marriage contributes to the harmony of the relationship between husband and wife; Imbalance can lead to tension or even rupture in the relationship. In fact, whether it is harmony or breakdown, it is a kind of growth for both parties in the marriage.
A woman with outstanding looks and many suitors before marriage. After marriage, women are used to the beautiful clothes and bags that are easy to get, and they are also used to being favored by the stars. As a result, in married life, the woman is still lazy to work, but her material resources to her husband are increasing.
After satisfying the woman's exorbitant demands again and again, the husband finally felt that he was powerless to cope. After countless explanations and quarrels, he chose to end this marriage, to relieve himself, and to give the woman space to find a more suitable marriage partner.
After the divorce, the woman thought that she could still get the treatment of the stars before marriage, but the reality gave her a slap in the face, and she was no longer cared for. In order to live, had to go to work. After experiencing many encounters, the woman found that her current income was not easy to get, and her material conditions were not as good as before the divorce.
As a result, the woman came up with the idea of remarrying a man. When she contacted the man and said her demands, the man told her that he had remarried and was now living a happy life, and wished the woman to find her other half as soon as possible.
Marriage, as the basic unit of society, requires the participation of both husband and wife. In marriage, the husband and wife are an equal partnership. However, due to social and historical legacies, unequal imbalances, including material pursuits and dedication, are common.
This inequality and imbalance stems from social structures and cultural traditions. Society will measure men more by material conditionsThis also gives some women an excuse for inertia, like the woman above, who thinks that men are responsible for making money to support their families, and they are responsible for being beautiful like flowers.
In fact, the woman's cognition is not completely wrong, but it only magnifies the responsibility of the other party and her own rights. When this perception dominates the mind, the woman also gives up on her own growth at the best of moments.
Some netizens shouted to the woman: The girl is still a good girl, just learn a lesson.
Some netizens ridiculed their husbands: giving up is not the best choice, marriage is to help each other grow together.
It is believed that whether it is a woman or a husband, if they are willing to enter marriage hand in hand, the two must have deep feelings and the pursuit of a beautiful marriage, and marriage itself is a kind of growth.
For women, financial independence is an important way to achieve marital happiness. Only when they are financially independent and materially not dependent on each other will they have enough confidence to build their own spiritual world and accompany each other to grow together.
Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, love and marriage is a kind of power, and giving yourself more choices is also a kind of power. It's just that when we have it, we use our own efforts to show the best side to each other, don't wait for it to be lost, and regret it.
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