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A woman is always easy to become a love brain in love, which is related to her character, always suffering from gains and losses, but losing herself.
In her heart, she always felt that only by keeping in touch with the other party at all times could she maintain his heart and let him never abandon her, otherwise she would only lose him.
Even, when a woman is faced with a man's irrationality, she has to show a generous appearance, pretend that nothing happened, and continue to take the initiative to contact him, but the result of this is only to make herself more humble and will not have any other effect.
You think that as long as you work hard enough and give enough, you can win his affection, but it also depends on the attitude of the other party, if it is just your wishful thinking, then don't continue.
If you want to win once, then remember: don't be humble and please, he won't take your affection, a man ignores you and wants to let him take the initiative, so that the connection is effective!
1. If he ignores you, don't ignore him
When one day, a man becomes oblivious, you may wonder why he has changed, does he not love you anymore?
The more you think like this, the more unwilling you are, and you will want to continue to take the initiative to contact him, maybe when you contact him, he will change his mind and be the same as in the past.
But in fact, he has already chosen to ignore you. How can it go back to the past, when he began to cut off contact with you, it was the beginning of unlove, even if you didn't admit it, it was useless.
At this time, the most correct thing to do is not to take the initiative to contact, but that he ignores you, and you don't pay attention to him, don't let him feel that you have to be him, so as to arouse his desire to conquer and let him find you again.
I like Lin Lin in "In the Blizzard" very much, after she broke up with Meng Xiaodong, she still liked him in her heart, but she never took the initiative to contact him, making others mistakenly think that they were really out of play.
Lin Lin did this, but it made the cold Meng Xiaodong anxious, and he began to ask his sister Xiaoguo if Lin Lin had mentioned him, in other words, he wanted to know if Lin Lin still had him in his heart.
When he got a negative answer, he was disappointed, it turned out that Lin Lin hadn't cared about him for so long, did he not love him anymore?
You see,A man is like this, if you ignore him, he is more uncompelled than you, and wants to know what you think in his heart, but will take the initiative to contact you.
Second, get together with friends of the opposite sex and make him anxious
In relationships, most women are slow to heat, but if they really fall in love, they will become very single-minded, and they will only revolve around each other, completely without their own life and circle.
When you only have him in your eyes and are centered on him, he will have a kind of "you can't do without me anyway" mentality, and slowly become cold, and even don't like to take care of you.
At this time, instead of pestering him all the time to ask him "what's wrong" or ask him "do you love me or not", it is better to go to a different way and go to more parties with friends of the opposite sex, especially those who have liked you before.
When you regain your circle of friends, he will be anxious, feeling that you don't need him anymore, and he may be chased away by others, which can also ignite his fighting spirit.
In the movie "Predecessor 4", Ding Dian saw that Yu Fei didn't care about her feelings at all and ran to date his ex, how could this be unbearable?
But she didn't pierce it, but retaliated with a tooth for a tooth, you can find an ex, I can also find an ex, and specially took a picture for Yu Fei to see, she wants to see, who will be more anxious?
Sure enough, Yu Fei couldn't hold his breath, and directly asked her who she was with, hurry home, or break up with her, etc., and then go back satisfied.
Men are like this, the more you look closely, the less he cherishes, and when your mind is elusive, he starts to get anxious and begins to pursue you again.
3. Be an excellent self and wait for him to take the initiative
Many times, men ignore you, in addition to his reasons, there are also your own problems, think about it, are you for him, you don't want it yourself, so how can you win the love of others?
Love yourself before you love others, when you become an excellent self, don't wait for you to attack, he will take the initiative to come to you, even if he was cut off from you before, and now he wants to be with you again.
Remember the ending of "Hot and Hot"? Le Ying's sentence "depending on the mood", as well as directly expressing her thoughts: "I don't like to eat bullfrogs", is really cool.
At that moment, seeing the surprised expression on Haokun's face, he didn't expect that Le Ying would become so thorough, and she was no longer the humble and flattering Le Ying before.
Before, in order to please him, she would deliberately go home early to cook, and if she didn't do well, she would also order takeout, pretend to make it herself, and then eat together.
In order to please him, she will help him distribute flyers together, only hoping that he can complete his performance, make more money, and no longer be blamed by the boss.
But later Le Ying became a thin self, and at the same time the core was stronger, Haokun used to ignore her, but now she makes him unattainable.
When a man ignores you, the best thing to do is not to contact him frequently, but to grasp his psychology and prescribe the right medicine, so that the problem can really be solved.
In the face of his love and ignorance, you had better not bother him, calm down, be rational, instead of annoying him, it is better to make him anxious and stimulate his desire to conquer, but it will have a better effect.
Only by keeping a man in a sense of crisis at all times will he change from ignoring you in the past to taking the initiative to find you, and will always stick to you and not let you leave.