You find that no, all of us now don't have real friends. Men to men, women to women, men to women, men and women, young and old. What are the criteria for a real friend? Either you have money or your life, you have to take the same. Don't say that we usually drink together and our girlfriends go shopping together, this doesn't count, at most this is the same three views and common beliefs, these are two different things. For example, borrowing money from others is basically impossible now; For example, a young classmate who can have true feelings between two men, after going to society, you will find that no matter how good the relationship between you is, it only survives to the former you and the former him, but now he may not treat you as a true friend. Why do you walk and look back and you're left with yourself? That's the reason, you don't have any friends with alcohol and meat among colleagues, it's even more nonsense that there is no one in the workplace who can make money and live a life, you don't have it, and I don't have it.
Because there are two words missing between people nowadays: trust. You say borrow money, 50,000 yuan, you need it, I need it too, I trust you, I lend it to you, but you don't have a good chance of not paying it back. How many good relationships collapsed because of borrowing money. All friendships are based on common hobbies, common beliefs, common childhood, or common interests, etc., but there is no common trust. Therefore, in ancient times, what kind of fateful friendship, what two ribs stuck in the knife, and the current era of peace does not match, so the friendship we have now is basically in the air, but people are to express their emotions, so our emotional expression should be expressed in **? Express it on your affection.
Therefore, the older you get, the more important you will find that everything is not important, the most important thing is your own family affection. There is something that can help you, except for your loved ones, no one else has. So, don't get too obsessed with so-called friendships and focus your limited time on meaningful people and things. Whoever has meaning, who gave birth to you and you who gave birth to others, let him go.