I am 72 years old and my daughter-in-law asked me to go to a nursing home, I didn't agree, she kicked me out of the house
My name is Limber, I am 72 years old, and I live in a family that seems to be harmonious but has an undercurrent. When I was younger, I was a secondary school teacher, teaching and educating people, and doing my duty. After I retired, I wanted to enjoy my old age in peace, but unexpectedly, family conflicts gradually surfaced.
I have a son named Zhihao, who works as an executive in a large corporation and has a busy job, often working overtime late into the night. Daughter-in-law Yating is a fashion designer with a bright appearance but a somewhat strong personality. The couple have a 5-year-old grandson named Xiaotian, who is the baby of the family.
As I got older, I gradually developed various minor problems in my body. Although it does not affect self-care, it occasionally needs to be taken care of. However, my daughter-in-law, Yating, became more and more dissatisfied with me, she thought that I was too old to take care of my grandson, and often made noise at home to disturb her work and rest.
One night, Yating sat on the sofa, watching the pension advertisement on TV, and suddenly said: "Dad, I see that you are also old, why don't you go to a nursing home, where there are professional nurses to take care of you, and you can meet a lot of new friends." Her words made my heart sink and I knew she meant that she wanted me to leave the house.
I shook my head firmly and said, "I still want to retire at home, where I am familiar with everything I know, as well as my relatives and friends." Yating listened to my words, her face sank, and she didn't speak again.
However, within a few days, Yating began to find fault at home, thinking that the food I cooked was not to taste, that I was watching TV too loudly, and even began to restrict my freedom and not let me go out at will. I felt helpless and helpless, but I couldn't change it.
One morning, I woke up to find that my door was locked and the lock had been changed. I tried to knock on the door and shout, but no one answered. I knew it was Arting's ploy, and she wanted to kick me out of the house.
I stood in the doorway, my mind mixed. I think of the hard work I have put into this family, the scene when I took my son's little hand to send him to school when he was a child, and I think of my care and care ......for my daughter-in-law when she first got marriedNow, that's what happened to me.
Just when I was feeling desperate, my neighbor Xiao Wang heard my cry for help. He hurried over to help and helped me contact my son Zhihao. When Zhihao learned of the situation, he hurried home. He saw me locked out with a look of shock and anger on his face.
Zhihao knocked the door and asked Yating why she did this. Yating said indifferently: "I just want to be good for my family, he is too old to live here anymore." Zhihao retorted angrily: "Do you know how much Dad has paid for this family? How can you do this to him? ”
With the help of my neighbor, Xiao Wang, I was finally able to enter the house. I stood in the living room, looking at my son and daughter-in-law in front of me, my heart full of helplessness and sadness. I know that this home is no longer the same home it used to be.
Zhihao looked at my old face and lonely expression, and a trace of guilt flashed in his eyes. He walked up to me and whispered, "Dad, I'm sorry, I'll figure out how to fix this." I patted the back of his hand and didn't speak.
In the days that followed, Zhihao began to try to communicate with Yating, hoping that she would change her attitude towards me. However, Yating insisted on her opinion, believing that sending me to a nursing home was the best option. The family conflict escalated again, and the relationship between me and Yating became more and more strained.
In the midst of this family storm, I felt more and more powerless. I don't know what the future holds, and I don't know if I'll be able to stay in this house. However, I believe that no matter what difficulties I encounter, I will face them strongly, because I have my dignity and pride.