As I get older, I look back and have more sympathy for the chapter in "Dream of Red Mansions" where Jia Rui was played with by Wang Xifeng. Although in his fantasy world, he has a lot of thoughts about Sister Feng, but from another point of view, his tragedy is not only that he can't control his own **, but also that the external environment affects him. He didn't want to be such a bad guy in the first place. But in the end, he died a miserable death, his tragic life was very short, and when he left the world, he was also unbearable, and he died. There are a lot of people who are responsible in this process. The world didn't understand him, he didn't feel love, although his grandfather and grandmother loved him, but in the wrong way, too harsh, making his adolescence very boring.
1.The pain of the original family
Jia Rui's parents died when he was a child, and he lived by his grandfather and grandmother, who were unwilling to teach all his life, and his grandfather was extremely strict with him, and he would get a lesson if he was not careful, many people under the patriarchal system were victims, and no one paid attention to Jia Rui's deep pain, and was later teased by Sister Feng, and no one told him about the bitterness in his heart when he was extremely embarrassed, and he was alone to bear the pain.
Wang Xifeng's viciousness
Why did Wang Xifeng play with Jia Rui? The reason is mainly that Sister Feng feels that Jia Rui is not worthy, has no self-knowledge, a descendant of a poor family, and also deserves to covet Sister Feng, who covets a famous family, his liking for her has lowered her status, just like being liked by a very bad person, maybe no one will feel happy, so she wants to give him a little power, she wants her to die in her hands, maybe at first Sister Feng just wants to give him a little bitterness, but the final result is that he really went to the abyss of death because of her elusiveness and his own inability to restrain.
Jia Qiang and Jia Rong took advantage of the fire to rob
Sister Feng asked Jia Rui to meet in the small black house for the second time, Jia Ruixin thought it was true, and went to the appointment after dark, but she didn't know that she had already fallen into Sister Feng's trap. Sister Feng asked Jia Qiang and Jia Rong to lurk in the small black room early, just waiting for Jia Rui, a fool, to take the bait. Jia Rui really went to the appointment, saw someone in the small black room, mistakenly thought it was Sister Feng, and it was a rude thing to go up, and at the embarrassing moment of the last step, Jia Qiang laughed, at this time Jia Rui was sober for the most part, and begged to give him a way to live, Jia Qiang pretended to agree, but to give hush money, he wrote an IOU of fifty taels (the annual expenses of ordinary people are twenty taels, which is undoubtedly a huge amount of money for Jia Rui, who was born in a declining family, compared with the suicide of college students who owe high loans today, Jia Rui's situation can be better understood), Then Jia Rong also appeared, asking for the same hush money, as a last resort, Jia Rui wrote an IOU, so far they showed him a way, but what was waiting for Jia Rui on the road was the feces and sewage they prepared, in the world of the cold winter wax moon, poured on Jia Rui, Jia Rui didn't dare to squeak, silently endured, no one was innocent, they were all helpers who killed Jia Rui.
Of course, the culprit of Jia Rui's death is still his own desires, and there is no way for a person to reasonably suppress his desires, and he is driven by desires, and finally goes to the abyss and destruction. Cao Gong actually created the character of Jia Rui from the perspective of compassion, there are many people in this world who have more or less Jia Rui's shadow, but no one has a God's perspective, but this desire is not only **, but it may also be an overly deformed obsession with other things, in short, all beings are suffering, a little restraint in everything, a little loss, maybe it saves itself.