Wen Zen Wen Xiu
Do you know that the real way to make a person fall in love with you is not to be entangled, but to break up, or to break up completely.
Because people are like this, the easier it is to get, the less they know how to cherish it, the more untouchable it is, the more precious they feel.
The Supreme Treasure in "Journey to the West" repeatedly wants to get rid of Fairy Zixia, but only after losing it will he understand that she has quietly become such an important part of his life.
Disconnection is to stimulate the other party's loss psychology, so that he can't see you, can't hear you, and really feels that he is about to lose you.
As Feixiang once said in a program, "When you lose your beloved, it is the biggest trauma in your life."In this way, he will remember the memories of your traveling hand in hand, those good times together, and he will feel that he has lost something precious.
Remember, it's better to break off completely, and don't be afraid of being replaced, than if you endlessly consume yourself in this relationship and not be cherished.
If he can wake up, then regain love and go both ways. But even if he leaves ruthlessly, the person who should be sad is not you, because you just lost someone who doesn't love you, and he has lost someone who loves him as much as his life.
What kind of lover deserves to go back and love again after a breakup?
is that after the two people separate, he is like the world evaporated, completely disappeared in your world, since then you have become a better version of themselves in the years of disconnection, and have a more wonderful life.
Reunited in this situation, everyone can face their past feelings openly, and the two people are re-attracted to the new each other and start a new story.
Like Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse, Xue Zhiqian and his wife Gao Leixin, this kind of relationship is not a vulgar plot that weighs the pros and cons and turns back after multiple comparisons, but two mature souls meet and collide with different sparks, this is the will of God, if you meet it, you must hold each other's hands tightly.
There is a saying: the compound after change is called "starting over", the compound after solving the problem is called "getting back together", and the compound after not changing and not solving is called "repeating the mistakes of the past".So, a breakup doesn't mean the end, and it may still be the beginning of true love.
First of all,DisconnectionNot the end,Rather, it is the beginning of true love.
In fact, many people will only understand that this person is so important to them that they will never see this person again.
He was able to remember, "It turns out that I have done so many things wrong before, and if I could do it all over again, I would never say the opposite to hurt him." ”
If you can go back in time, communicate well at the beginning, and don't speak against your heart, it would be good, if you have another chance, you won't put so much pressure on him, right? ”
Like that sentence, if God could give me another chance, I would say three words to that girl, "I love you".
I watched a show, a man, 94 is very young, said that he and his ex have been separated for three or four years, and in the past two years, he has also come into contact with some people of all kinds, but he always feels that he is not as good as his ex, including dreaming of his ex, but now the longer he is separated, the deeper he misses each other. Later, by coincidence, their fate was not over, and they got back together.
Therefore, disconnection is a good time, because only after the two of you are really calm, if the two of you are true love, then the period of disconnection happens to be a test for the two of you to achieve positive results.
Secondly, the connection is disconnectedWhat if he falls in love with someone else?
Some women will say that after the other party broke up, he played directly and seamlessly, what if he fell in love with someone else?
Wouldn't that be better? This doesn't just verify that the two of you are not a good relationship in the first place, God did not break you up, but screened out a person who is really not suitable for you, a wrong partner.
Therefore, in the long run, breaking up is never a bad thing, but God is helping you to recognize him at the same time, but also recognize yourself, you can't stand the feelings of breaking up, let alone the destruction of firewood, rice, oil and salt. So, if you are not a good person, why waste time.
You don't have to worry, the breakup is likely to be an opportunity for you to move towards true love.
When you calm down, when the other party also calms down, he will naturally look back on the good things you have been along the way. At this time, you can calmly disconnect so that the other party can see your heart clearly.
A lot of girls will say, saying that they are afraid that the connection will be broken, what should I do if it is really broken? You have this worry, which means two things: first, you don't have the determination to really change, so you don't have confidence in yourself;
Second, if he will immediately fall in love with someone else, it means that he is not your good karma, which may be that God is afraid that the longer you go, the deeper you will hurt, so he helped you screen a rotten peach blossom.
So breaking up is not entirely a bad thing, it can help you see the other person clearly, and also let you see yourself clearly, which is the thing that says to us that the relationship has a qualitative improvement.
Then, if the other party's feelings for you can't stand the test of breaking up, then he naturally can't let you entrust you for life.
So don't be afraid to break up, breaking up is to make him fall in love with a better you again.
The way to turn a person back is to cut off the connection and let him experience a period of time without you at all, not being able to hear you, not seeing you, not being able to feel your presence.
Let him know that you can live well without him, it will trigger his sense of loss, and your former good will come to his mind. Let him really feel the regret of really losing you.
Remember, it is better to break off completely, and not to be afraid of being replaced, than to exhaust yourself in the wrong relationship.
In fact, people only realize cherishing after they lose, and breaking off contact is just a test of whether he still has true feelings for you. Don't worry about whether it is completely irreparable, if he empathizes and falls in love during this period of disconnection, it means that you don't have a deep relationship, and he is not the only one in his heart, and ending a wrong relationship is not a relief.
Disconnection must be the most effective way to make a person fall in love with you again, and disconnection can also make you more sober yourself, so you must have the courage to disconnect and either regain love or freedom.
March** Dynamic Incentive Plan
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