I love to travel around the worldOn a trip to India, I met a local beauty, and we had a great conversation and became friends.
I recommended our country's culture and customs to her, so she came here with curiosity, and we played for 5 daysBefore leaving, she suddenly asked me why there are so many rich people in China.
In order to fulfill the host's honor, I went to the airport to pick her up and prepare to take her to the hotel I had bookedAs soon as she got off the plane, she felt that the construction of the airport was full of science and technology, vast and expansive, and people were dressed brightlyIt was new to her.
Along the way, I showed her the beautiful scenery that she would pass by outsideThe high-rise buildings everywhere are brightly lit, which makes her feel that the city is very mysterious and desirable.
She was shocked when she saw the splendid hotel, and asked me in a panic whether it was expensive or notShe was horrified by the attentive and enthusiastic staff, and I couldn't wait to take her to taste the food.
I first took her to the night market street with a large number of food varieties and a lot of food, so that she could feel the charm of the night city.
I introduced her to a variety of delicacies, and we almost had all kinds of delicious food in both handsShe suddenly asked, Are you Chinese very rich?
She said in India,Vendors like this don't sell food that is as expensive as it is hereThey even asked me if the people who set up the stalls here were all very rich.
No wonder she has such doubtsPeeled fruit is dozens of pieces a catty, and a pancake is more than a dozenIn her eyes, an ordinary cup of milk tea costs ...... twenty yuan
It is precisely because it is difficult for the people who set up the stalls to bear the high cost of renting shops, water and electricity, etc., so the profits of this method are naturally higher.
In her eyes,Even the food with the same taste as your own country can be several times more expensiveIt can attract countless people, so you will subconsciously think that Chinese are rich.
The next day, I took her to a hot pot restaurant that I likedShe saw that the waiters here were hospitable, even ordering with electronicsIt makes her feel that this place is very developed.
This is a chain brand store, good service at the same time** in the upper middle level, we spend hundreds of yuan at the checkout, generally about three or five friends to go out may also be this price.
But she was dumbfounded when she saw the billIs the food and beverage here so expensive? She told me that in India, even if several people eat a good meal, they don't need that price.
After I had my fill of food and drink, I took her to the mall in the city center, thinking that I could buy some unique clothes and accessories to commemorate the occasion.
She personally felt the Hanfu culture here, and the bright color matching and delicate and unique embroidery made her feel very interesting.
I strongly recommend her to follow the locals and experience some of the traditional costumes hereSo she began to match her makeup and hair, and took a lot of good-looking ** for her in a green and beautiful environment.
Along the way, she saw many girls who were also wearing HanfuShe thought in her heart that these people seemed to be gentle and intellectual, and they must have poetry and books and a solid family.
In addition to taking her to various historical places of interest and the breezy beach, I also took her to the amusement park to play some projects to relieve stress and release herself.
During the chat, she told me that she thought we Chinese were polite, kind and hospitableBecause she can see people everywhere in an orderly manner, there are few queues, vehicles and crowds of people in a mess.
And when I learned that I was from India, many bosses would take the initiative to come forward and talk a few wordsAnd the security here is very good, and there are few thieves robbing them.
She longed for Chinese culture early on and learned that it was an open and inclusive countryShe had also heard that Chinese men were known to be diligent and humble, she envies those who can marry in China.
In her country, almost the fate of her parents is the most important, and the gap between the rich and the poor is hugeIt's normal for an ordinary girl to marry a man who is married for the second time, or a man who is a teenager older than herself.
Regardless of the fact that women's development space in the workplace is very limited, it is difficult to realize the freedom of dressing, and it is difficult to ensure the personal safety of going out.
In Indian culture,The main roles of women are mostly wives and mothers, and even after marriage they are seen as "appendages" to menIt does not have the right to speak and be autonomous.
Maybe you are still in your teens and you are about to be married off at the same age, and you will work hard to take on houseworkEven if the husband is dissatisfied, he may be beaten and scolded.
And married to the locals,Most women in families need to give a large dowry to the man to cover the cost of the weddingThere is even a circulating "curse" that says, "I wish you a daughter."
On the other hand, China,Most of the men here are faithful to their marriages, and the relationship between men and women is relatively equalIt is manifested in the workplace and in the marriage relationship.
Women do not need to take on the tasks of housework and childbearing after marriageIt is possible to continue to pursue one's own career or even leave the child in the care of one's parents.
The bride price can be discussed before marriage depending on the city and familyIt doesn't just need to be a woman's unilateral contribution, and the patriarchal mind is gradually opening up and becoming less harsh.
Most Chinese men pay attention to family, and many men of appropriate age hope to get married in the process of datingSpecialized in the process of communication.
1. Considerate, there is almost no idea of "men are superior to women".
And with the popularization of educational attainment,Women gradually strive to be self-reliant and dare to speak out, and it is rare for men to lead outside and women insideMost of the time, the two can consult with each other before marriage.
Moreover, China's achievements in various fields have long been internationally famous, as well as various cultural characteristics with unique charm, and the most important point is thatIndian women can realize their self-worth in areas where they excel in service, catering, tourism, etc.
When a person's life is self-consistent and strong enough, love is no longer a necessity, and you can choose to live alone.
At first, when she was traveling, because she had lived in India for a long time, she bluntly said that she was often harassed when she went out, and she was extremely wary of men.
However, when you come into close contact with Chinese men, you will find that they are like humble gentlemen, and rarely disrespect women.
Another reason for her to wonder is that after a few days of playing, she learned that this is a more developed citySo he asked me if there were any slums here.
She was surprised when she received a negative answer, and she had the impression that even some developed countries in Europe and the United States had slumsSo she subconsciously believes that China has developed to the point where everyone can have enough financial resources to live.
Our country has indeed experienced many people's income and expenditure are not proportional, and there are days when there is no meal, with the development and progress of the countryMost of the people who are not in a good financial situation can get help.
Indians like to use their hands to grab rice when they eatThey believed that the right hand was more holy and suitable for eatingThe left hand is not allowed to be used to hand things in most cases, otherwise it will make the other person feel offensive and disrespectful.
China, on the other hand, is used with both left and right hands depending on the situation, and there is no one that is more "noble".We also have chopsticks, spoons, knives and forks, etc., and we don't eat with our hands often.
Chinese pay attention to etiquette, and even often leave some bad emotions to relativesInstead, the etiquette-oriented, enthusiastic and sunny side is left to outsiders.
Especially as hosts, they will be thoughtful and considerate of guests who come from afarLet them feel the customs of China.
In this process, it is easy for international friends to feel that we are "wealthy".In fact, we are just hospitable, and we hope that they will make their trip unforgettable.
At the end of the journey, she also became another person who was "conquered" by China, and welcomed more people from all over the world to experience the charm of China.
This article is based on the contributions of netizens and the real experience, and the names and place names in the article are pseudonyms].
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