In middle age, I revisited "Snail House" and found that it turned out that Xiaobei was not reluctant to leave the seaweed after being green, but had another hidden secret.
Can a man really tolerate a woman's betrayal?
From ancient times to the present, the idea of male power is deep-rooted, although men and women are equal today, but in their bones, men are selfish in terms of feelings, and women are not even allowed to have a trace of stain.
So the question is, seaweed derailed, is Xiaobei really retained because of love? In fact, otherwise, he already had a huge conspiracy coiled in his heart.
What kind of person is Becky?
He is a budget-conscious person, in that era, an ordinary worker could save 60,000 yuan in just a few years, it is enough to see that Xiaobei is very thrifty and very good at "running" life, and every money he has to spend on the blade.
He is good to seaweed, and he is willing to buy Häagen-Dazs for 25 yuan, and he is willing to take her to the restaurant because he can marry seaweed in one year.
He put marriage at the highest point from the beginning, and when Seaweed asked him to borrow 60,000, he said something.
It can be seen from these words that Xiaobei is very clear, he can spend money on seaweed, because she will be his wife, but he will not help Haiping, even if they are sisters, she is not part of their family.
This kind of money, there is little hope of returning it, and he will not come out.
But the moment he saw Seaweed's derailment, he collapsed, which meant that all his previous plans were in vain, including the time and money invested in Seaweed.
He was reluctant, and even more unwilling, so he cried and begged the seaweed, and they were together.
But can the broken mirror be reunited?
Although Xiaobei is with Seaweed on the surface, she will never forgive her in her heart.
In the past, as long as Seaweed shouted to sleep, Xiaobei would immediately turn off the lights, but now he keeps playing games and smashing keyboards until his hands are bleeding.
Is Shellfish reluctant to seaweed? He was reluctant to pay for seaweed in the past.
In the last time of getting along, he never got over the hurdle in his heart, which led to the exposure of his true nature.
used to be gentle and romantic with seaweed, but now he directly abuses seaweed, pulls and bites seaweed, humiliates her cheap, dirty, and even frequently swears at her.
Seaweed thought that Xiaobei could accept her again because she loved her, but she didn't know that it became the beginning of the seaweed nightmare, which was undoubtedly Xiaobei's revenge, to put it bluntly, he was not reluctant to seaweed at all, and his reluctance was nothing more than the money and time spent on her.
Seaweed has a strong desire for materialism, and she has a lot of details to reveal when she is with Xiaobei, Xiaobei's heart is like a mirror, and she understands everything.
When Seaweed saw 25 pieces of Häagen-Dazs, she wanted to eat it, but she understood that Xiaobei wanted to save money, she endured it, but she couldn't hold back, and finally Xiaobei bought it for her; She always goes to discount shopping malls and picks out out-of-season brands when she buys clothes, instead of going to the stalls to pick a few cheap clothes; In order to wear different clothes every day, she changes clothes with her sister; Although seaweed travels on the street every time, it will stop for a long time when it sees new brand clothes.
In fact, Seaweed has a strong desire for material things, otherwise she would not let Xiaobei buy a house in a big city to get married.
However, after experiencing the turmoil of this derailment, she became timid and did not dare to ask Xiao Bei for any material demands.
Xiaobei's abacus played very well, after the derailment turmoil, Xiaobei proposed marriage with seaweed, ostensibly using marriage to tie up seaweed, but in fact, he already felt from the bottom of his heart that seaweed was cheap, not worth a big house, and not worth a wedding.
So he said to Seaweed, "Let's get married, just pull the certificate, don't have a wedding, and don't see the parents." ”
Seaweed took marriage as a way to atone for her sins and agreed.
After being known by my sister Haitang again, my sister strongly objected, how can anyone get married without seeing their parents and not holding a wedding, not to mention that now they don't even have the most basic material security.
No man would tolerate the presence of another man in his woman. ”
Song Siming is like this, and so is Xiaobei.
So for the seaweed cheating, Xiaobei can't not care, he still wants to marry her in the case of seaweed's cheating, it's nothing more than to show Song Siming and tell Song Siming: Seaweed finally loves him Xiaobei, and Song Siming is with you, but it's just a show.
It's just that Xiaobei underestimated the status of seaweed in Song Siming's heart. He didn't expect that Song Siming, a person with such an identity and status, would really be emotionally attracted to seaweed.
Who is Song Siming, he has been in officialdom for decades, who has not seen him?
So when he learned that Seaweed was going to get married, his sentence "Seaweed, don't get married, come back." It became the last straw that crushed Xiaobei.
Xiaobei lost, he overestimated himself.
In fact, Seaweed also understands in her heart that after this derailment, Xiaobei can no longer treat her as a treasure, and she may fall into Xiaobei's constant domestic violence and roaring in the future.
In the end, Seaweed chose to let Xiaobei go, which was the last gift to Xiaobei, and it was also a way to let himself go.