Oh, really, married people know that it is very important for husband and wife to have a good relationship, but ah, even if your relationship is iron, after the age of sixty, you still have to keep an eye on it, this is great wisdom!
Think about it, how fast the current society is changing, even the person who sleeps in the same bed can't be completely dependent. So I would like to remind everyone here that after the age of 60, even if the couple has a good relationship with each other, they must pay attention to the three aspects of finance, emotional dedication and physical health, which is a kind of responsibility for their later life.
Let's start with the economy. You know, marriage is not a business, but the economy is really the cornerstone of marriage. I heard a story about a grandmother in her sixties who was kicked out of the door by her wife who had been with her for decades. This grandmother, when she was young, threw herself into the family, and spent all her money on children and housework, but when she was old, she had no pension and no private money, so she really had nothing left. Fortunately, her child is filial, otherwise it would have been miserable.
Therefore, we elderly people must pay attention to the economy, have their own savings, and have their own pensions, so that they can live with confidence. After all, the world is unpredictable, and who knows what will happen tomorrow?
Let's talk about emotional giving. Marriage is like a scale, and it requires both parties to work together to maintain balance. If one party gives too much, the scales will tilt and the marriage will go wrong. is like that old grandmother, she gave everything for the family when she was young, but in the end, she was disgusted by her wife.
Therefore, we elderly people should also pay attention to their feelings, don't always give selflessly, but also learn to love themselves and maintain their dignity and worth. Only in this way can you gain the respect and cherishment of the other party.
Finally, good health. This is even more important, without a good body, everything is empty. A friend of mine went for a physical examination a few years ago, but he was shocked to find that his liver cancer was in an advanced stage and had no treatment. His wife regretted it, why didn't she get checked earlier and find out earlier?
Therefore, we elderly people should not only pay attention to their own physical health, but also pay attention to health management, regular physical examinations, and timely detection of problems. At the same time, we should also care about the health of our other half, encourage each other, and enjoy a healthy life together.
In general, married life is like a tide, and no one can go up and down. We can't use marriage as a haven for life, let alone a permanent haven for life. I hope that every reader can find happiness in marriage and work hand in hand with the person they love to move towards a better future.
Of course, this requires us to continue to learn and accumulate experience in life in order to do so. Remember, keeping an eye on your mind is not not distrusting the other person, but taking responsibility for your own life, which is wisdom and a sign of loving yourself.
I hope that my words can be helpful to everyone, and I also hope that every family can be happy and happy, and every elderly person can enjoy their old age in peace. Come on, let's work together!
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