In the unit, you rushed to work one day, the leader said"You're pretty good at getting stuck"
Kobayashi is an ordinary employee of a government agency in the city. The unit is very strict about working hours, and it is required to be seated before 8 o'clock. Kobayashi has always been diligent and has never been late, but a few days ago he encountered a small episode.
Early that morning, Xiao Lin originally planned to go out at 7 o'clock, but suddenly received a ** from his wife, saying that the cabbage in the small field of the old couple in the vegetable garden had been picked up and asked him to hurry up and take a look. Xiao Lin had to go to the vegetable garden first, and found that the cabbage had been eaten up, probably by the hands of a hare. It was already half past seven after dealing with this matter, and he hurriedly drove to the unit.
But it didn't go far before I encountered a small car accident and was stuck on the road, and it was already 7:50 a.m. after the traffic jam was cleared. Xiao Lin ran wildly all the way, and finally rushed to the downstairs of the unit at 8 o'clock. He trotted all the way through the janitor's room and into the elevator room, and it was 8:04 a.m. Just when he thought he could make a good time, the ** elevator that swore not to circulate at any time stopped at the 6th floor lacklusterly and did not move.
Kobayashi only got out of the elevator room, climbed 13 floors on foot, ran all the way, and finally rushed into the office at 8:13, his forehead covered with beads of sweat. He originally thought that his colleagues would laugh at him when he was so late, but he didn't expect the office to be quiet and empty. Only then did I remember that today was Saturday, the unit was on holiday, and I was delayed for so long by a series of small things.
Just when Xiao Lin scratched his head and was about to go home, Tang Weiying, the director of the unit, suddenly opened the office door and walked in, and laughed when he saw Xiao Lin's embarrassed appearance"Why, you seem to have come to work today? It's hard work! "Xiao Lin also thought it was funny, so he told everything he encountered today.
Director Tang laughed after hearing this, patted Xiaolin's shoulder and said"You're really good at getting stuck! I saw that you were so nervous and rushed over, and I thought it was something important! "
Hearing the director's words, if you were an ordinary person, your first reaction might be to say it embarrassedly"I'll be sure to arrive early in the future"。But Kobayashi has a high emotional intelligence, and he immediately realized that it was a big mistake to do so. After all, Director Tang is a leader, and it is inevitable that he will take this sentence as one"Not convinced"response. This not only can't resolve the embarrassment of the moment, but may make the leader have something for you"I don't know if the leader has an opinion"In the future, it will also have an extra layer of psychological baggage on you in terms of employing people.
So Kobayashi immediately switched to a high emotional intelligence response:"Director, you're so right! I was stuck at all this morning, and I thought I was in time for work. But I didn't expect it to be there'card'Rest today'Dot'Go to work, what a humble gentleman! "
Director Tang was coaxed by Xiao Lin's witty answer, and praised Xiao Lin again and again that Xiao Lin was really a humorous person. Xiao Lin also said with a smile"Director, you are also a leader with a great sense of humor. We're all too hardworking, so it's time to relax. You see, today is me'Not doing business'Let's have a good holiday, spend the weekend with our family! "
The two chatted in the office for a while, the warm sun was shining, and the spring breeze sent bursts of floral fragrance through the window. Until Director Tang said with a yawn"Okay, okay, it's time for me to go home and take a nap", the two of them said goodbye. Before leaving, Director Tang also specially instructed Xiaolin:"Then you should have a good rest today, and you will have to pay attention when you arrive at the unit tomorrow, but you are not allowed to do this again'Stuck points'Ahh "
When he went to work the next day, Xiao Lin smiled and said to Director Tang"Don't worry, Director, I won't be today'Stuck points'Finish! "Director Tang nodded knowingly and said with a smile"That's good, that's good. "
This small incident was later widely spread in the unit and became a good memory between Kobayashi and the director. Director Tang also sincerely praised Xiaolin's high emotional intelligence and humorous style. Later, when Director Tang retired, he couldn't hide his emotion and said to Xiaolin:"You are really a talent, among today's young people, there are not many people who can combine humor and steadiness. It would be great if you could spread this positive energy in the unit. "
In fact, smart people rarely do things with a single stroke. Like Xiaolin's high emotional intelligence and humorous philosophy, it is tantamount to setting a good example for everyone. In the workplace, we really can't always be diligent and rigid, but learn to be humorous at the right time, which can not only enliven the atmosphere, but also shorten the distance between us and the leader, and enhance mutual feelings.
It can be said that a person's emotional intelligence depends on whether he can adapt to various situations and respond skillfully. In the face of ridicule or criticism from the leader, the stupid person will rigidly explain and argue in every possible way, or only promise to make corrections. Sensible people tend to defuse awkwardness and humor in a way that softens the mood and creates a light-hearted atmosphere. So-called"Humor can make people feel extra close", Xiaolin is the best footnote.
From this short story, it is not difficult for us to find the following philosophy of life:
For one, witty humor will allow you to deal with all kinds of embarrassing situations, and being rigid and blunt will only make things worse and mess things up. In this era of emotional intelligence, people with high emotional intelligence can win the recognition and favor of others.
Second, in the workplace, you must learn to be flexible and flexible, and do not stick to a rigid mode of thinking, because things are not all black and white. A dose of humor can not only ease tensions, but also bring you closer to your leader.
Third, true leadership is wise. They will not be too reluctant to ask their subordinates to be 100% perfect, but can tolerate and understand the failture of their subordinates, and truly teach them according to their aptitude.
Fourth, it is inevitable to encounter such and such small mistakes or episodes in the work, and the key is to maintain an optimistic, positive, humorous and humorous attitude. If you can deal with it calmly, you can resolve everything that goes wrong, and finally win the weight of the leader.
Therefore, no matter what kind of environment you work in, as long as you can handle interpersonal relationships like Kobayashi did, resolve conflicts and ease the atmosphere with wit and humor, you will definitely be able to win the favor of leaders and colleagues in the workplace, and then get the ideal development space. Being able to mingle with leaders will also be a big plus for your career. Remember, humor is the best way to live in the world, and it will help you navigate your work and life with ease. I wish you a prosperous and prosperous future in your career! Workplace