The most important opportunity for ordinary people to change their fate is to study hard and change through exams. Since the resumption of the college entrance examination after the Cultural Revolution in the last century, too many poor students have jumped out of the farm gate through the college entrance examination and the high school entrance examination, changing the fate of facing the loess with their backs to the sky. Due to the poor economic conditions of my family back then, I chose to go to the middle school after graduating from junior high school, and I didn't have the opportunity to take the college entrance examination, which can be regarded as a change of fate.
My daughter grew up in the countryside, and she attended primary and junior high school in the countryside, and attended the county No. 1 middle school in high school. She has been very good at studying, with a perfect score in mathematics in the college entrance examination, the first place in the county in the total score was admitted to Tsinghua University, after graduation in Beijing employment, now the income is acceptable, it can also be said that through learning to change the fate.
Although this change as an ordinary person is not worth mentioning compared with those who have money, power, and background, it is not an exaggeration to say that it has changed their fate compared to themselves and the people around them.
Another chance in life to change your destiny is marriage. Choosing a different life partner is choosing a different life. Life does not have to be rich and rich, family harmony, plainness, and worry-free food and clothing are also happy lives. And to have this ordinary happiness requires your own efforts, and you also need to make the right choice.