Don t give up on yourself because of other people s evaluations, be true to yourself

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-03-07

Time flies, and each of us plays our own role on the big stage of life, whether happy or sad, advancing or retreating, or radiant, or obscure. Life is not always smooth sailing, and we may lose ourselves in the doubts and ridicule of others, and pressure ourselves to hide in a chaotic situation.

Many people have lost their true selves under the rules of the world, and in order to cater to the eyes of others, they go against themselves and put on someone else's face, so that in the end they even lose themselves and can never get back to their original selves. Let other people's evaluation become the guide of their actions, they change themselves in order to cater to other people's tastes, and they go to what others appreciate, as if they have become the shadow of others, and they can no longer find themselves in the shadow that sways with the wind and is at the mercy of others.

Growing up, we will inevitably feel troubled by low self-esteem, anxiety, frustration and confusion, however, the most painful thing is that "it's not what you can do, it's what you should do." This "should" is often the life trajectory set for us by others. We get along with the world in a safe way, forgetting that I am who I am because I have chosen a different path rather than following the so-called "stream".

Don't give up your true self because of what others say, your life is not a collection of other people's lives, you are the only you, irreplaceable. Every success you have has written the history of your struggle because of your every persistence and every drop of sweat. If you choose to give up because of someone else's evaluation, then you are rejecting the possibilities that may unfold in the future.

Being your most authentic self doesn't mean you can do whatever you want, it requires you to discover your beliefs, hold on to them, and change the world through your unique forms. Shine your sparkle into people's lives, that's your exclusive color. Everyone in the world is a brother, only you are unique, only you can understand your world, only you can find your next step.

Show yourself, despite the doubts and uneasiness, despite the fact that someone will laugh at your weirdness, there will always be someone who appreciates your uniqueness, whose gaze will illuminate your path forward, give you endless strength and confidence, and let you know that when you choose to be yourself, you are creating infinite possibilities.

Don't let other people's evaluations become your shackles, your unique value is built on your authenticity, let it be based on your wisdom, your talents, your love, your hopes. Then even if time flies, you can shine in the years.

I want you to understand that every human being has his own magic, and that magic can only be understood by himself, and only by himself. You have an ingenious heart, it's beautiful, it's shiny, it's powerful. It opens up a world that belongs only to you, that world is unique, that world is full of color, and that world is you.

Let us be firm in our own world, stick to our beliefs, and perform our truest selves on the stage of life. Because we only have one self and only one life, we can't let it be silent in confusion and depression, we need to make our lives full of passion and vitality, and we need to make our world unique and colorful.

Let us not give up on ourselves because of the evaluation of others, be the most authentic self, live not for others, live for ourselves, live our soul, live our own color, and live our own life. Because, this world is unique because of you, you are your own star, illuminating your own path, illuminating your own life, illuminating your own world.

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