There's a new meme on the Internet.
"If you dare to mess with me, then you can be regarded as kicking cotton. ”These cowardices with the strongest words are collectively referred to by everyone"Wasted literature".。The characteristic of waste literature is that it seems to be violent, and then immediately admits cowardice in the second half of the sentence, how arrogant it is at the beginning, and how cowardly it is in the second half. seems to be saving face, but in fact, he has pulled down his last dignity, so he is also called by netizens"Inspired Bag Literature".。Weak, helpless and trapped.Life has crushed me repeatedly, but it has made me softer and more comfortable. ”
Although we honest people don't cause trouble, we are also afraid of things. ”
In a fit of rage, a moment of anger. ”
There are 10 million buildings in Ande, and 10 million buildings in Guangsha. ”
I have superpowers, but everything is beyond my power. ”
Don't test my bottom line, because I'm going to lower my bottom line. ”
Why? Because the original meaning of "nest" is to describe people who are incapable, timid, and cowardly, when a person is said to be "nested", it means that this person is incompetent, lazy, and has no achievements in life and work, and has no merit. In real life, it's too much to say that a person is a wreck. Think about it, if someone in life says you're really a wretch, you won't be angry. So even if the word "wreck" has become a new meme on the Internet, it still can't escape the essential meaning of the wordWith judgment, with sarcasm. And the popularity of "waste literature" on the InternetThe ridicule that stems from it is masked by self-deprecation。Moreover, it also hit the resonance of countless netizens, and this is the key to its popularity. "Wasted literature".At first glance, it was funny and humorous, and then I read emo in my heart, and finally I was helpless to laugh at myself"Isn't that me", "It looks like it's me", "Please turn off my monitor", ......I have to say, this generation of young people is a handful"The core of comedy is tragedy".Play understood. But behind the self-deprecation, it is actually young people who are gradually realizing that they will slowly become the middle-aged people who sneered at when they were children, and they realize that no matter how hard they try, they still can't reach the distance they want to go. It is they who find that they still can't find what they want to do, the value of life, and the meaning of life after reading hard. It is they who have seen the world and the vast world and found that the unevenness of the world, the unevenness between people, may be separated by a Mount Everest. Some people were born in Rome, and some people couldn't get to Rome with all their life's strength. 
Therefore, instead of avoiding and complaining, they choose to laugh at themselves, choose to take the initiative to expose their own shortcomings, cowardice, and choose to face the embarrassment of reality through "wretched literature". And this is a way for them to heal their inner self. 
In other words, "Waste Literature" is similar to the previously popular "Rat Literature" and "Crazy Literature", both of which use self-deprecation to express dissatisfaction with the status quo and accept it helplessly, which is a way for contemporary young people to vent their emotions and pressures. Among them,Crazy literature, focusing on a world that kills the world, the famous saying of wisdom is "Instead of mentally consuming oneself, it is better to go crazy and consume others." ”
Waste literature, on the other hand, focuses on a bluff, which seems to be ruthless, but in fact it is as soft as cotton inside. If you take the fact that life is not satisfactory as an example, then crazy literature is that life is already so unsatisfactory, what is wrong with going crazy, there is a feeling of hysteria and a not very good mental state. And the waste of literature is that life is already so unsatisfactory, so if it is unsatisfactory, it will be unsatisfactory. The world kisses me with pain, and the pain will hurt. Compared to mad literature,Waste literature seems weak, but it has a little more wisdom in life. That is, when the external environment cannot be changed, accepting the status quo and then reconciling with oneself is self-consistent and a positive attitude towards life. How stressful is young people these days? The pressure of going to school when they were students, the pressure of employment after graduation, the workplace crisis at the age of 35, unemployment hanging over their heads like a knife, the pressure of survival made them breathless, and their former ambitions were vulnerable in the face of the cruel society. After being beaten, everyone finally understoodPowerlessness is the norm of life and the truth of life. In this case, it is too normal to be soft on the lips and admit defeat with a word, but the internal friction and pain in the heart can be relieved. Life is rare and fulfilling, and self-consistency is the only antidote to suffering and helplessness. 
That is in this society of "rolling and rolling, lying and lying flat".How to be self-consistentThis? It is mentioned in the Book of Navar that happiness is an inner feeling, so one of the secrets of happiness isLearn to ignore things you can't control。After all, individual power is limited, if we can't change the world, then adjust ourselves to adapt to the environment. There are ten unsatisfactory things in life, there are too many things that can't be changed, it's better not to worry about these things that can't be changed, don't be angry about it, complain,Focus your energy and time on things you can control. Pain comes from desire, from comparison, rather than meaningless involution and self-internal friction, it is better to accept your own mediocrity, admit your own failure, reconcile with the available or unattainable in life, and pursue the inner peace and happiness of the present self. Is it an escape? Of course not. To a certain extent, admitting one's own mediocrity, admitting one's failures, and admitting one's cowardice, is not ashamed, but also cathartic through self-deprecation, but a kind of gentle rebellion against the helpless reality. Moreover, it is not an easy task. We have been taught since childhood that we must win, strive for the top, not lose, and continue to climb one peak after another, so when we can freely use waste literature to laugh at ourselves, this is not another kind of progress. After all,"Waste" is also a kind of "retreat as advance"., life is so not easy, take a bag, take a soft, you won't lose meat and you can entertain yourself, why not. 
From rat literature, to crazy literature, to today's wretched literature, they are essentially a reflection of the times and circumstances in which they live. We should not just watch and laugh it off, but also see their plight in this empathy. Instead of praising their humorous self-deprecation, think about how you can alleviate the situation. Instead of waiting for the birth of one after another online self-deprecating new literature, and then laughing and admiring the self-consistency of this generation of young people. If there is a way, who will be willing to say a word, if you mess with me, you will provoke cotton. It seems to be strong, but it is so light, and in the end, it is drowned in countless information on the Internet, becoming Internet garbage and forgotten by people. And thenOnly young people in distress remain, looking for the weak strength that can make them positive while being self-consistent. After all, nesting is not the ultimate solution in life, and rotten and crazy are not the way of life that everyone really yearns for. No matter how humorous self-deprecation is, it is only a temporary self-paralysis. After the effect of the drug, in the face of life and difficulties, you still have to find a way to overcome it. As a result, more people are still trying to succeed and fail, striving to become the "rat rat" who "even if it is a scrap of society, but it is also a little pride of a mother". "Life crushes me, I can laugh it off, but my soul will always go up. ”