In recent years, the number of students who have taken a break from school due to mental health problems has increased year by year, and this age when they should be studying in school is not able to go to school, not only the children are suffering, but also the parents are anxious.
Parents and students need to be well prepared, so what should be done?
Parental understanding and support is crucial, and when a child is facing mental health issues, parents often reflect on and adjust their parenting style to try more effective and supportive parent-child interactions.
On the issue of returning to school, parents need to discuss how to deal with the situations that may arise after their children return to school, such as being lazy at home and "speeding up" the pace of life after returning to school; Accustomed to living alone, feeling nervous when getting along with classmates; Due to long-term medication, poor mental state leads to failure to keep up with grades, or inability to persist in school.
By discussing and preparing in advance, you can avoid falling back into ineffective solutions when an undesirable situation occurs.
The resumption of school should respect the student's independent will, and parents should not blindly force the student to return to school. Parents should establish psychological expectations that it is normal for students to fail to keep up with their learning progress and unsatisfactory grades within a semester of resuming school.
So, how do you determine if you meet the criteria for resuming school?
See if the teenager has a stable mood and a normal psychological state.
1. No longer afraid of learning and interpersonal communication.
2. They should be able to avoid behaviors and risks that harm themselves or others, and be able to communicate with others without barriers.
3. They should be able to cooperate with the specification**.
4. They can live a regular life.
Teenagers may experience some difficulties in the early stages of reopening as they may not be able to live fully in accordance with the rules and regulations of the school.
If it is true that the child is unable to adapt to school life, parents should also understand and respect the child's choice, so that they understand that "there is more than one road to Rome".
Parents should provide ongoing support and encouragement to their children to let them know that they are not alone in facing difficulties.
Adolescents need to be well prepared before returning to school, including mental, behavioural, and social preparations. Schools and families should give them enough support and encouragement to help them get through the re-entry period, so that they can truly return to normal school life and grow and progress from it.
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