When it comes to villains in the workplace, many people grit their teeth, eager to hold down the villain and beat him, in fact, there are not many villains in a company, the key depends on the leadership, the quality of the leadership means that the number of villains, the leader with a principled bottom line, the villain is relatively few, and the leader with poor character likes to use the villain to help himself do bad things.
Many people have suffered the loss of the villain, and they hate the villain to the bone, in fact, the villain is hateful, but sometimes he is stabbed by the villain, and he also has his own reasons, such as his mouth is not strict, or he is used, if you want to stay away from the villain, don't do these four things.
You must have a clear understanding that colleagues are not friends, even if you have similar values, don't treat colleagues as friends, just communicate with people casually, and pour out your heart and lungs to your colleagues. You must know that although colleagues are collaborators, they are more competitors, and the more you trust and communicate with your colleagues, the easier it is to be stabbed in the back.
The bad thing about villains is that they take the trust of others as their own stepping stones, they will take the initiative to approach you, gain your trust, and then let you seduce you to say things that you shouldn't say when you relax your vigilance, and then go to the leader to hit your little report. The most important thing to survive in the workplace is not to speak ill of others in front of colleagues, if you don't give others a handle, it is not easy for villains to catch your problems.
Behind the rampant villain, there must be the connivance of the leader, the reason why their calculation of you can succeed is that there are leaders to support them, to put it bluntly, the leader wants to deal with you, and the villain is just the leader's white gloves. If you have a good relationship with the leader, the leader doesn't need to mess with you, the villain is to beat you for a small report, and the leader may not believe it, but if you have a bad relationship with the leader, the villain's small report will become an excuse for the leader to suppress you.
Some people don't want to cause trouble, always thinking that more things are better than less things, and they can endure it, and in the face of the villain's calculations, uphold the idea of taking a step back and opening up the sky, hoping that the villain will accept it when he sees it, but it turns out that the villain not only did not stop, but became more and more intensified, making your situation more and more difficult, so that you have no place to stand.
You must understand that the more you show weakness, the more people will bully you, and the most important thing is that once you show weakness and don't explain or resist, then the villain's slander or slander against you will not be confirmedThen other people will not only not sympathize with you, but will also think that you are a villain, but will exclude and isolate you.
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