Hello everyone, I am Rufan's mother Mo Yan said:
People don't talk about their goals, they don't talk about their money, they don't talk about their family affairs, and they don't talk about their mistakes. Keep these four secrets and avoid disasters, far from right and wrong.
Mo Yan's words are not only a suggestion for life, but also a refinement of the wisdom of life.
If you don't say these four things and don't implement them well, you will eventually "say too much and you will lose" and bring unnecessary troubles and disasters to yourself.
Don't say your goals
I'm sure you've all heard of the phrase "make a lot of money with a muffled voice"!
In fact, achieving one's own goals is also similar.
You don't go around advertising your goals, you think you're a company?Do you want to set your goals so that everyone in the company knows about them
We're human!Not applicable to the company: everyone knows it.
Individuals are suitable for themselves to learn silently, grow, achieve goals, and then amaze everyone.
If you don't believe it, you can try it by posting a circle of friends.
Some people who are on the same frequency as you may encourage you.
But some people, maybe your colleagues, might sour you, "Ouch, that's good!."I'm quite self-motivated, and when the time comes, don't forget to have a meal!”
I haven't even started yet, but I'm thinking about my meal.
Don't talk about your money
No matter how good the relationship is, don't disclose your finances lightly to avoid causing trouble.
I remember that in October this year, the news of the murder of Henan Internet celebrity Luo Damei broke out on the Internet.
He is an anti-actor from an art school, often playing a beauty in ancient costumes, and has more than 3 million fans. Not only shooting**, but also has its own beauty studio, which sells cosmetics.
It should be said that he has become a little famous, and he has made some money.
After becoming famous, he didn't take money too seriously, and his former friends asked him to help, and he was also very generous.
Money drives people crazy.
Luo Damei was deceived by 3 acquaintances to Nanzhao County to kidnap, originally only wanted to extort hundreds of thousands, but when they found out that Luo's account had millions, these three people transferred all his money.
After that, he also plans to sell him to Mian Dian. As a result, the plan failed, and they killed Law.
Luo Damei's comments before his death were not bad, everyone said that he was very kind, and when he met an old man begging on the overpass, he would specially give him a bag of eggs. developed, do not forget to help friends.
Such a good person, but he was killed by an acquaintance.
People really can't be too kind, and they shouldn't show their wealth!
I just said that my money was just enough, only enough to eat and clothe, but I was worried every day, and I had to pay wages to employees as soon as I opened my eyes.
Crying poor, sometimes, is really a way to save your life!
Don't talk about your own family affairsEvery family has a scripture that is difficult to read.
The problems encountered by each family are different, don't tell others casually, this will only bring trouble to yourself.
In this way, it is equivalent to having a handle in someone else's hand.
Moreover, others don't necessarily really care about your family affairs, they just listen to them as jokes, and even spread the word about your family affairs and exaggerate them. 
Don't say your mistakesIf a person is not a sage, who can be without fault?
If you make a mistake, correct it, and don't make it next time.
And don't go around telling people about the mistakes you've made. In this way, you can weaken your own credibility and leave a bad impression on others.
Being a man, being able to speak well, is a kind of ability;But sometimes, not to say, is a kind of life wisdom.
Learn these four not to say, not to show off, not to publicize, not to disclose personal information, so that we can avoid disasters, stay away from right and wrong, and better protect ourselves.
May we learn together to do these four things.
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