One small mistake can lead to eternal hatred. This quote has profound implications for children looking for a partner.
In the face of fast-paced life, we all yearn to find the right person, but once we make the wrong choice, the consequences are unimaginable.
Therefore, children should not be hasty on the road of blind date, but need to learn to understand each other.
Dress, look at the attitude.
A well-groomed woman shows confidence and self-love, which is an expression of beauty and respect for others.
In psychology, this is known as the "peacock screen effect", like a peacock displaying its feathers to attract the attention of its other half.
Dressing up carefully is to show the other person that you are sincere and attentive.
Women like to look their best, while men put some effort into love.
This attitude can be simple and sincere, or it can be well-dressed to give a different impression.
For people who don't care much about dressing up, or if the other party has seen ** but is perfunctory, maybe you should be careful.
This performance of "looking down on yourself" may be a signal of rejection to the other party.
Dressing up is an attitude, respect for the other person, and it is also a manifestation of one's own attitude.
Eat, depending on the character.
The mediocre eat, and the wise seek.
Dinner is a great opportunity to assess your character.
Pay attention to whether the other person cares about the details of eating together, which shows how serious your relationship is.
At the dinner table, it is necessary not only to eat and drink, but also to plan for future family life.
Writer Yishu once said: "The class is over, who is still interested in love?"These words speak to the hearts of many young people.
But if the other party can't even enjoy a meal, then the cherishing of this affection can be imagined.
After dinner, see if the other party takes the initiative to arrange for everyone to go home, which is a manifestation of safety and care, which is worth paying attention to.
Enter the house and see the family traditions.
Go to his house and see the surroundings of his home. Tsang's words hit the nail on the head.
The family environment and family relationships are a strong testament to a person's character.
By skillfully guiding the conversation, we can "hit the bull in the middle" and get to know each other's families.
See if there are books, high-end liquor, or a lot of people smoke.
The greatness of people is that they are alert, so take advantage of them.
In conversation, talk about the decoration style of the home, the decoration of the home, and the way you talk to the family, these are all ways to get to know each other's family.
A clean, warm, and bookish family is often a symbol of hard-working parents and harmonious relationships.
Through such conversations, we can get a glimpse of each other's family style and feel the warmth of family affection.
work, see pattern.
Most of the righteous people who kill dogs are disloyal scholars. ”
This old saying tells us that honest people are not necessarily sincere, and unfaithful people are not necessarily reliable.
Work and making friends are the key to determining future development, and the attitude of reading and making friends is the yardstick to measure a person's pattern.
Stay away from people who go around making bad friends for the sake of their careers, but making reliable friends where we can see each other's attitudes towards work and life, and thus get a more complete picture of their patterns.
Finding the right circle for you will help you with the stability and happiness of your future marriage.
After getting to know each other, we should make one principle clear: it is good to gather and disperse.
Career is not righteous, fate is not in friends.
In the process of blind date, write a letter of approval to the other person, and do not delay the respect for the next person.
Parents cannot sit idly by in the search for the right elephant.
We can give people fish, but we have to give people fish.
Through the joint efforts of the two generations, expand social networks, learn to see people, communication will be smoother, and married life will be easier.
By getting to know each other, we are able to navigate the ocean of emotions more steadily and find people to connect with.
Because in the world of love, the so-called "there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts".