Giving a child a mobile phone triggered reflection, and the hidden danger of the boy beating his mother on the street was highlighted
A child who is used to it is like killing his own child. ”
Not long ago, a child beat his mother's little ** on the street, which went viral on the Internet. It disappointed many parents, and also made many parents begin to reflect.
The kid beats the mom.
How many children have been hurt by using mobile phones now?
For children's Internet addiction, how much do parents have to do with it?
What should parents do to prevent their children from using mobile phones?
What happened to all those kids who were addicted to moving?
Not long ago, a shocking picture was staged on a street in Qingdao.
A young man who was not very old actually beat his mother in front of everyone, and he scolded and scolded in his mouth, which was unbearable.
Good people want to stop it, but nothing works.
According to internal sources, the child is only 12 years old.
At the age of 12, it is the time to go to school, it should be the time to go to class, it should be the time to read, it is the time to stroll through the sea of books, and enjoy the time of youth.
How could such a thing be done that is contrary to morality?
It turns out that he is a person who likes to play with his mobile phone and plays games every day.
The beaten mother first verbally threatened, but when she saw that she could not be dissuaded, she snatched her mobile phone from her husband.
Who knew that the child was not only unrepentant, but also beat and scolded like a psychotic who had just come out of an insane asylum.
Finally, ** arrived and ended this ridiculous farce.
Upon learning of the situation, the police immediately criticized and educated them.
As soon as this incident came out, it immediately exploded on the Internet.
No one has disciplined him since he was a child, but now he is being disciplined by ** and has suffered a lot of grievances in prison. ”
It's a bit about these two kids, but you can't hit anyone. Parents are at fault, but what about teachers?”
Children "can't do it" to their mothers, and mothers "can't do it" to their children.
These people are saying that the child has gone too far, but they all admit that the parents are also very responsible.
This makes many parents with children panic, worried that they will one day have one more "enemy".
In fact, the initiator of this incident is everyone's favorite mobile phone.
There are many examples of children being harmed with mobile phones.
Not long ago, on the streets of Hengshui, Hebei Province, a similar scene occurred.
A tall, dressed little boy argues with his mom on the way home and starts beating up mom who raised him.
The little boy grabbed his mother's hair with one hand, and grabbed his mother's hand with the other, and when his mother dodged, the little boy did not give up, but chased after him, as if there was some kind of hatred between the two children.
The pedestrians around couldn't help it, and stepped forward to stop it, but who knew that they were scolded by the little boy.
The scolded man grabbed his son's hair and forced him to say sorry to his mother, do you know how difficult it is for your mother to pull you to this point day by day?You did it to your mother, and you are worse than a brute.
The little boy didn't know what he had done wrong and tried to escape, but he didn't succeed.
In the end, forced by everyone's persecution, he reluctantly lowered his "noble" head and apologized to his mother.
A teenager actually beat his mother like this, if he did something in private, it would be even more infuriating.
There was even a time when a high school student was beaten to the hospital because he was disturbed by his mother.
This series of events shows how extreme the children who are addicted to the movement can become, and they themselves can push themselves into a kind of addiction to the game.
How much does it hurt to overindulge in your hands?
In fact, there are already quite a few children around us, all playing all kinds of games and apps.
The book "Can't Stop: How to Get Rid of Behavioral Addiction in the Age of Swiping" points out that not being able to stop using mobile** is an easily addictive behavior.
It is an act that makes people unable to extricate themselves, it can satisfy one's desires in a certain sense, for a period of time, in a sense, but if it continues, it can cause great harm to a person.
First, there is a lot of visual damage.
Excessive use of mobile phones can lead to a variety of eye diseases.
These days, children wear glasses, and it's all because of these gadgets.
When a child uses a mobile phone for more than 20 minutes continuously, his vision decreases to 438. It is a relatively serious myopia.
Second, her academic level plummeted.
If a child is too addicted to his mobile phone, then he will no longer focus on his studies, he will be completely immersed in the virtual world, so his studies will get worse and worse.
Third, it has adverse consequences for physiological functions.
If you use your phone for a long time, if your fingers are fixed, it will cause certain obstacles to the development of your fingers. In addition, keeping the head down for a long time will also have a great impact on the growth of the neck, thus causing neck deformity.
Children often use mobile phones, which can have a negative impact on the growth and development of the body, and can also cause various diseases.
A 10-year-old boy whose IQ dropped because he played with his mobile phone for too long and finally became paralyzed.
This is a very common disease, because the use of mobile phones for a long time causes bad lifestyle habits, the immune system in the body is disordered, which triggers immune encephalitis.
This shows how harmful a small mobile phone is to children's health!
It may cause symptoms such as anxiety and autism. Children who play with mobile phones for a long time will become more reluctant to contact with the outside world, become more lonely, behave more and more strangely, and even have problems such as memory loss.
Fourth, for the sake of their own competition, they become more selfish.
Today's young people like to compete with others.
If you find a cell phone on another student, you'll want one too, and if your parents don't agree, you'll be doing you a disadvantage.
There was a news that some children did not have enough money to buy their own mobile phones, and some would steal money from their parents and classmates, thus gradually developing a bad habit of stealing.
All in all, over-indulging in mobile phones can have many adverse consequences for developing children, and in severe cases, they can be life-threatening.
Why do children become addicted to mobile phones?
First, physical addiction.
All kinds of content on mobile phones are used by designers to catch people's eyes and attract the public's attention, so that children can spend more time to invest.
Second, addiction.
Habitual addiction is better than physiological addiction.
This type of child is not interested in mobile phones at first, but in their leisure time, they have nothing to enrich their lives, so they only have mobile phones left.
Such children can easily be dragged out of their mobile phones, but if they are not controlled, children who have been addicted to mobile phones for a long time may become physically dependent.
The third issue concerns the education of the family.
Family education is a fundamental reason why many children are overly addicted to mobile phones.
Here, parents have a responsibility.
Moreover, many parents are addicted to their mobile phones and have no time to take care of their families and husbands.
The Chinese Academy of Social Sciences has also published the "Youth Internet Literacy Education Reader", but it was compiled by the national social science organization.
This exposes parents' resistance to the Internet, the lack of education, the roughness of education, and the lack of parent-child activities in families, which makes children likely to develop bad behaviors of excessive use of mobile phones.
This is due to the fact that parents do not provide sufficient care and affection to their children in a timely manner, and there is no deep affection between the two parties, so what they think in their hearts is ignored by parents.
Some parents don't let their ** leave their mobile phones, take them as an example, and find different fun from their mobile phones.
Family Humor Video magazine once conducted an interview with children to let their children know what they enjoy most in their daily lives.
The children unanimously said that their parents liked to use mobile phones the most.
This answer shocked all the experts present.
One of the children also raised his own question: Why do our parents only care about using **, but never think about themselves?」
This shows how important parents are to their children's education.
To make the mobile ** give way to the parents.
First, children cannot be blindly banned from using mobile phones.
In fact, some parents also discovered the dangers of children using mobile phones and stopped them in time.
This simple and brutal method is always a palliative rather than a cure.
Excessive restrictions will lead to power struggles.
In general, after the age of seven, children are very rebellious, and their thinking will slowly become independent.
At this time, if the parent's tone is too harsh, it will only make him more unruly, and even more obsessed.
In psychology, there is a term called the "forbidden fruit effect", which is that when a person's forbidden things are discovered, their curiosity will be stimulated and they will do more. For a small child, being overly addicted to movement** is an example of this.
Second, harmony between parents and children is the most important.
In the final analysis, it is still a matter of human feelings. ”
Many parents attribute the over-indulgence to their children to their children, but in fact, children's addiction to the Internet is more due to their unmet needs in the real world.
Therefore, parents should spend more time with their children and spend more time with their children, so that parents can use their parents' time instead of mobile phone companionship, which can also make the relationship between parents more harmonious.
Third, to enrich children's minds.
As long as the child is addicted to mobile phones, parents should reflect on whether the child's world is too monotonous.
Parents can often send them outdoors to play ball, go to museums, and travel around, so that they can truly experience and show the beauty of this world.
Expand your baby's knowledge, develop specific interests, and wean your baby from being dependent on mobile phones.
Fourth, parents should lead by example.
Parents and families need to lead by example to avoid children using mobile phones.
In front of his son, if he can, he won't look at it, and if he can, he won't look at it.
This is the so-called "close to Zhu Zhechi".
Really good teaching is about inspiring others with a spirit.