Like a person, eat a person. Just like a cat sees a fish, it is reluctant to let go of the beautiful things that are about to arrive, and give it to other cats, and it is also selfish to fall in love with someone, hoping to get him and start a wonderful relationship. It's just that it's not enough to have unilateral efforts, love needs the willingness of the other party, and if you want to wrap a man's heart around you, try these methods. 
1. Seems to be in love but not in love, and maintain a sense of mysterySee such a short **. The girl likes a boy very much and takes the initiative to confess, but she didn't expect that the boy never took her to heart, and he was very proud when he got along, and always ignored her. Friends persuaded the girl to give up, and the girl smiled slyly, not wanting to give up the prey she fancied, but choosing a different way of hunting. She deliberately chilled the boy for a long time, pretending to have given up, meeting the boy again, and still greeting him in a friendly manner, but leaving after saying hello, no longer sticking to the boy as in the past. 
This way of fishing attracted the interest of boys, and made him especially want to know what girls want to do, whether they like others?began to secretly observe what the girls were doing every day, and the boys' every move, the girls had long seen it, and they were overjoyed about it. Sometimes, getting a person is a game with the other party, if you show the hole cards too thoroughly, he will be calm, knowing what kind of routine should be used to completely suppress you. 
But if you are uncertain about the way you take, your behavior will give him uncertainty: he feels loved but is not sure whether he is really loved;I thought you didn't take him to heart, but you felt a sweetness similar to love. This kind of parting is like two people playing hide and seek in a relationship, testing each other's hearts, and the man will maintain a constant interest in you because he wants to conquer you and explore the mystery behind your actions. 
2. Improve yourself and attract menI remember when I first got together with my husband, I didn't have anything, and he was torn between accepting and rejecting me. It wasn't until I got along with me deeply and found that all the things he wanted to do were not done, but I could match the resources around me to help him achieve what he wanted to do, and it was obvious that something was different between us. After getting married and having children, I have been insisting that the writing fee has also risen, from the original small transparent author with a monthly income of 400 to an independent self-** person who can earn 20,000 a month by writing...
Looking back and re-examining our marital relationship, I can find that my husband has directly changed from his original level of admiration to admiration. I remember that when I was at home full-time with my children at home, he would come back from work and think that it was my fault that the housework was not done, and he rarely took care of it, and I would have my own tiredness when I took care of the children. But now, he will take the initiative to do what he can, and he will take the initiative to care about my feelings. In fact, there is no love for no reason at all, only when you know how to love yourself and even become better, will others have the motivation to take the initiative to get closer. 
Don't be naïve to think that if a man says he loves you, he will be willing to be deeply bound to you for a lifetime, in the male world, choosing a mate will also give priority to choosing an object that can benefit his life. The better you are, the better you can manage your life, and the easier it is to settle a man and make him inseparable from you. It's not that he really can't leave without losing his ability to take care of himself, it's that you have enough attraction to make him reluctant to leave. In fact, no matter who you fall in love with, in the final analysis, you need to deal with your relationship with yourself. When you pay attention to yourself, love yourself with your heart, and no longer revolve around each other, you will grow a kind of magnetic force that will firmly attract the other person to your side. 
I have never been willing to take the birth of love for granted, if a man is willing to be eaten by you, it must be that you have a bright spot that can meet his needs, so that he is willing to continue to get closer. So, if you want to get a man, don't put the key point on "capture", look at him closely, afraid that he will leave, or afraid that you won't get it at all;In the relationship, he "wants to catch and indulge", and he seems to be dismissive of him, only focusing on himself, but in fact, the center of all behavior is on the word "capture".