Pure friendship between men and women at the same table in the third year of high school Confessing to each other caused the classmates and aunts to laugh, and the teacher sighed
A child in early love is not a good child", and "early love, a big mistake" ......These may be the general public's views on early love, especially parents are very sensitive to their children's every move when they interact with classmates of the opposite sex, for fear that their children will accidentally fall on their feet.
Actually?Some so-called "early love" is just a simple good feeling and talking about everything, supporting and encouraging each other, and working together towards a learning goal.
01 The men and women of the third year of high school confessed to each other at the same table, and the classmates in the audience laughed at the aunt, and the teacher sighed: What a pure friendship There is an issue in "Youth Talk", which is impressive. A girl took the stage to "confess" to the boy who had been at the same table for two years as she left her senior year of high school, and she hoped that she would be admitted to the same prestigious school in the future.
The audience can feel that the boys also have a good impression of the girls, because the girls are nervous before the lecture, and the boys have been encouraging her with a warm smile.
The girl said that because she had never shared a table with the opposite sex before, she felt very uncomfortable when the teacher arranged for them to sit together. It didn't take long for the two to become good friends who talked about everything.
In fact, the girls' grades are not very outstanding, but the boys often ask the girls questions, so the girls find that they are not so bad, and they still know a lot of knowledge, as she herself said: "It feels really good to be needed!".It can be seen that the girl may have had some low self-esteem.
The boy said that at first, it was really "not easy" to be at the same table with a girl, because he was a member of the opposite sex at the same table since he was a child. Speaking of this, the students in the audience laughed. Do today's children have such "humor cells"?I didn't even react.
But when God turned around, the boy said, "I always felt that you were a little different from them. Perhaps, at the beginning, our concepts were a little disagreeable, maybe there were conflicts between us, we cried, we laughed, we quarreled, and we also played. But that's all in the past, and we're still at the same table in the end.
I know that there are many obstacles on the road to your dreams, but just like you have done to me, please have faith that I will still stand behind you and support you. ”
02 Regarding the "sweet to the nose" senior male and female confessing to each other at the same table, see what teachers and netizens say.
Faced with the boy's "confession" to the girl, the female teacher next to her couldn't help but sigh: "What a pure friendship." When I heard this, I thought to myself, "Why didn't I have such a friendship in high school?".”
After that, the girl also generously said to the boy: "Then we agreed that we must go to a very good school together, become very good people, and play together in the future." ”
The boy also readily agreed, and agreed to take the university in Beijing together. In the end, the girl said that the boy owed her a birthday gift last year, and she thought that the boy had forgotten about it, but the boy said leisurely: "It has been placed on the girl's desk in advance, and I am ready to give you a little surprise." ”
At this moment, the students in the audience coaxed one after another, and some female students showed a "aunt-like" smile with envy and happiness, and even the male teacher couldn't help but sigh: "The plot of the youth drama is really!."”
Netizen 1: The aunt of the classmate in the audience smiled and accepted it, okay?
Netizen 2: Look at the boy's eyes, the girl's shy expression, and say "pure friendship", which is illogical.
Netizen 3: The boy's eyes have long been exposed.
Netizen 4: It's much better than idol dramas.
Netizen 5: I envy this kind of opposite-sex friendship too much.
Netizen 6: It's too pure!Especially girls, at first glance, they are good girls, simple and kind.
It is true that as an audience, I still understand this "pure friendship" between children, but as a parent, it is estimated that it will be a little unacceptable to see my son and daughter confess to each other at such a critical stage as the third year of high school.
03 If your child is in his third year of high school and has a "puppy love, what should you do?".Here are three pieces of advice for parents.
1) Parents should not casually label their children as "early love", and should understand the psychological reasons behind them in time. As an example, the pair of high school male and female classmates who "confessed" to each other as an example, in fact, many early loves in middle school are the same as them, and they are not real love at first. Because the feelings of some children at this stage of high school are not true love in essence, but a kind of emotional sustenance under pressure.
For example, the girl who confessed liked this boy because boys always like to ask her questions, so she felt that she was needed well. So, what's behind this?It shows that this girl usually has little affirmation from parents and teachers because of her poor grades, so she may have been inferior to herself, and it is the boy who makes her more confident and sunny. In addition, they also agreed to go to a prestigious school and become a better person. These are enough to see that this relationship is not only not negative, but a positive incentive for her.
2) Parents do not need to worry too much about the impact of their children's learning, the first thing is to understand the motivation and purpose of their children's early love. The reason why parents are very opposed to their children's early love is mainly because they are afraid of affecting their learning, and of course, they are also afraid of doing some out-of-the-ordinary behavior. In fact, it is not so terrible for classmates to have a good impression of each other, what you really need to do as a parent is to talk calmly with your child and understand why your child likes someoneFind out what motivates them to like each otherThat is, to understand what is the purpose of children's early love?Like the above pair of male and female classmates, their motives for early love are actually very simple, the girl feels that the boy can give him affirmation and support, while the boy feels that the girl is different, and the two also set a common learning goal, that is, to go to a prestigious school together and become a better person together.
3) Accept the fact of your child's early love with a normal attitude. As soon as many parents learn that their children are in early love, they are anxious and emotional, and they are ready to repair their children fiercely, but in fact, this approach can only backfire, and will make the child lose his trust in you, and he will no longer want to tell you what is on his mind. My advice is to talk to your child in the same way you normally would, and invite her or this friend of his over for dinner, or you can choose to eat out on fast food that your children like. The content of the conversation includes each other's family situation, academic performance, learning goals, future ideals, etc., and parents can also encourage them to work together and make progress. This not only allows children to eliminate mustard and increase trust in parents, but also makes it easier for parents to understand their children's current specific learning situation and emotional progress.
Question of the day: Do you support these two children's "early love"?Feel free to speak.
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