Whatever comes to you can be solved.
Variables are the turning point reserved for life
People always think that if you do something, you should go in the direction you want it to go, otherwise it will lose its meaning.
But in a fast-changing life, uncertainty is the only thing that can be determined.
Instead of worrying about things not going as planned, think about how you can change it for the better.
In fact, when you try to accept that things happen, everything changes.
Although people are not as good as heaven, we can change with the times, summarize lessons and adjust our direction.
In the end, you will find that the so-called trough is not a new beginning.
Move forward firmly, do not take temporary success or failure as a foregone conclusion, you can cross the thorns and dangers and meet the flowers.
Loneliness is an opportunity for self-precipitation
Loneliness, not because there is no one to accompany or understand, but because I have lost myself.
With an inner insecurity and a lack of self-spiritual support and support, we will try to seek help from the outside.
It's a pity that in this world, the only person we can rely on unconditionally is ourselves.
One book reads: "Loneliness can reduce a person to nothing, and at the same time it can reduce a person to the most complete self-possession." ”
Loneliness has always been there, but we are not powerless.
You might as well use those moments that no one cares about as a stop for your soul to rest.
Quiet yourself and have a long talk with loneliness. You will find that in the depths of loneliness, the world is wide.
After surviving the suffering of no one around, you will meet your stronger and stronger self.
Regret is the protection of fate for you
Every time you think of your past regrets, do you always have unspeakable entanglements and chagrin?
But in fact, regret is the norm. The first step in reconciling with life is to learn to accept regrets.
If we can understand that a person's time and energy are limited, it is impossible to want everything.
Instead of being obsessed with living an all-encompassing life, we will know how to find what really matters for ourselves in the trade-offs.
If you've done your best and still haven't paid off, it doesn't belong to you.
Some relationships, if you have done your best but are still not cherished, then it means that it is not for you.
In life, gaining may not be a blessing, and losing is not necessarily a curse.
It's better to accept that things backfire, don't force it, please believe: in the future, everything has its own better arrangements.
A psychologist famously said, "It is not the past experiences that determine who we are, but the meaning that we ourselves give to them." ”
No matter what your situation is, don't be sad about it from now on.
Believe that whatever comes to you can be solved.
Just allow it to happen, and then face it head-on with optimism and positivity, turning all experiences into life-enriching benefits.
Final review: Wang Zuozheng.
Reviewer: Zhao Jing.
First trial: Wang Xuewen.
Editor: Li Yanan.
*:Xinhua.