Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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No one is an island in this world, and everyone needs to have some connection with society.
Since you want to connect with others, then there will be love and hatred, and all kinds of flavors of life will come.
Smart people know how to make choices in interpersonal interactions, but stupid people don't treat them equally.
You must know that everyone's time and energy are limited, and life is short for a few autumns, so you must give full play to the value of your life.
You must give your energy to your own nobles.
As the saying goes: those who are destined for heaven help each other.
Don't try hard! These kinds of people around you are your nobles
Someone who helps you in difficult times.
The longer I have worked in society, the more I understand that it is not easy to help others.
Everyone has their own difficulties, everyone has their own worries, and the person who can spare energy to care for you and help you is undoubtedly your nobleman.
As the saying goes: it's easy to put the icing on the cake, but it's hard to send charcoal in the snow.
I'm sure we've all had that kind of money and relationship problems at one time or another.
When you have money, a lot of people gather together and flatter you in every way.
When you run out of money, they all disappear and ignore you.
Although people must talk about feelings, we cannot deny these social realities, and life is a process of moving towards reality step by step.
Only after seeing the reality clearly can we understand which people are truly worthy of being treated sincerely.
The person who can help you when you are in trouble may only be a small favor and will not make much difference.
But it's enough for you to see people's hearts and understand who is worthy.
Cherish the noble people around you and know how to be grateful, so that you yourself will have a noble life.
Appreciate and encourage your partner.
In fact, marriage in society is relatively free now, and many people choose to divorce every two years after getting married.
When I met someone, I said: My previous marriage was unhappy, and I met the wrong person.
In fact, many people don't think about what kind of partner they want.
I always say that we can't use past experiences and conditions to bind others.
Everyone has their own freedom, and we cannot ignore the problems that exist in society, such as the love of money, the fear of being hurt, and the fear of suffering.
On the premise of understanding, find a partner who can truly understand and encourage you.
A truly good marriage does not have to share ups and downs, which is a very demanding condition that few people can meet.
But be sure to find someone who knows how to take care of you, who knows how to encourage and understand you.
It is said that behind a successful man, there must be a great woman.
If the relationship between husband and wife is good, the career will be smoother, and you are all nobles of each other.
People who appreciate you.
There is no shortage of capable people in this society, and there is no shortage of smart people.
The reason why most people don't live their lives well is, in the final analysis, they care too much about their own feelings and who they are.
In fact, as far as society is concerned, in terms of life trajectory, it doesn't matter who you are.
The important thing is that you meet the right person at the right time and do the right thing, so that you can face the wind and live a better life.
That's the secret to real success.
It is precisely because of this that fate is very important, and it is a very rare thing to be able to appreciate you in life and give you the opportunity to show your talents.
People who like to read history books will definitely be able to discover a historical law, that is, the kind of people who are very capable of everything and know everything are not doing very well.
But the kind of people who know how to use people and know how to win people's hearts can leave a name in history.
This is a kind of logic of meeting a nobleman, not that this person is a noble person of that person.
But when they meet, they become noble to each other.
This is the first great blessing in life.
Accept your family.
Some people say that life is a process of accepting the ordinary step by step.
I often hear the news of a young man who works in a big city, because his parents are in the countryside, and he is desperate to become a city person.
So he directly cut off contact with his parents, and waited until his mother found out that he couldn't be contacted.
ran to the unit to look for him, but he drove his mother away, and said that his mother was his family's maid.
Such a person's character is not good, and it is difficult to meet noble people in his life.
You must know that in a family, parents are the greatest blessing, and you can't ask for Buddha.
In life, we must accept our own imperfections, accept the imperfections of our parents, and accept the imperfections of our children.
When the family is harmonious, people have no worries and can rush forward lightly.
No matter what status you are, what kind of status you are, your parents will be good to you.
This is the noble person you need to be grateful for all your life!
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About the author: Mr. Nai, a post-95 freelance writer, seeks to correct the three views than the facial features. Here you will feel that life is just a practice, and you must always maintain mindfulness, righteousness, and infect the people around you with positive energy. Here you will find the charm of words, and a heart full of sincerity. Here, you'll have a friend to talk to.