Author |Mr. Nai (ID: renshengxiuxing).
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People who live in this world and can live like a fish in water must be people who can speak.
There are many people who spend their whole lives not knowing how to speak, and speaking is an art and a science.
The Book of Changes says: Words and deeds, the cardinal of a gentleman.
In life, what kind of opportunities you can have, and what kind of destiny you will have, are all in what you talk about.
As the saying goes: those who are destined for heaven must have miraculous luck.
People who are really helped by God to change their fate, people who can have good opportunities in their lives, are surrounded by nobles, how to attract nobles around them, and being able to speak is fundamental.
A good tone of speech can be accompanied by good luck, and a bad tone of speech is easy to let blessings slip away.
Misunderstanding, ** in the wrong tone.
As the old saying goes: a sharp blade cuts the body and the scars are easy to close, and the bad words hurt people and hate them.
Language is the bond between people and is also an important way of communication.
Throughout the ages, I don't know how many people's lives have been ruined by inappropriate tone, and how many people have died because they can't speak.
The ancients paid the most attention to their own level of speech.
There are some people who can't control their emotions well, and once their emotions explode, they will immediately spit out evil words, how can such people not be annoying.
I once heard such a story:
There is a young couple who work hard in the field, the girl is very diligent, and she is willing to endure hardships with the boy and accompany him to rent a house.
The boy had a hot temper, and he happened to be reprimanded by the leader that day.
When I heard my girlfriend keep beating **, I immediately felt very bored.
And then he scolded the ** and vented his bad emotions to the girls.
And just like that, the two broke up.
Getting along with others, knowing how to speak softly, and knowing how to speak emotionally stable are the highest level of emotional intelligence in interpersonal interactions.
Language is full of energy, don't stick the knife of language into the person you love the most because of your emotions.
Your tone is your character.
A person with a truly good character is very humble to others and will not hurt others.
A person with a real good character is gentle in his speech to others and will not attack others.
A person with a good heart will be full of kindness when he speaks, a person with a generous heart will be gentle when he speaks, and a person with a gentle heart will be gentle when he speaks.
Hu Shi's mother is a very smart person, and although his speech is not heavy, it is very weighty.
When he was young, Hu Shi was very naughty, but his mother never talked about him.
Every time, he reasoned with him in a gentle voice, until Hu Shi understood his mistake.
This was very helpful to Hu Shi's growth, and eventually made him successful.
What kind of words a person speaks, what kind of person he is in his heart, what kind of character he has.
We often see a kind of person who speaks quickly and loudly, thinking that he can hide his vexatious behavior by being loud.
I thought that as long as I spoke loudly, I would have weight.
As everyone knows, this will make people look down on it even more.
A person who really has a good character and is worthy of respect is never louder than his voice, but the temperament that naturally exudes when he speaks is convincing.
In the tone of your speech, there is your character.
People who can speak are more likely to be appreciated.
Your tone hides the luck of your life.
Tao Te Ching says: Heaven and earth are unkind, and all things are dogs.
God is fair to anyone and never favors one over the other.
So why is everyone's fate different, and their lives are very different.
In the final analysis, in the interpersonal society, the tone of your voice guides your luck.
What kind of good fortune you have, and what kind of good karma you can make, are among the people you speak.
A good tone can make people feel like a spring breeze, make the people around you have a good impression of you, and ultimately help you achieve great things.
Lao Tzu said: The softest in the world, the strongest in the world.
A person with a tough tone will make people disgusted and make his fate more bumpy.
Only those who are soft-spoken can meet more kind people, have more luck, and finally change their own destiny.