In the eyes of men, there are many women's price drops, including being too frugal, not paying attention to image, complaining, lack of respect, and so on. Today, we will analyze these 4 well-known price drops in detail, and provide you with feasible solutions and suggestions.
The first point: too frugal.
Zhang Ailing once said: "Whoever pays too much attention to the condensation of assets will lose his taste." And this sentence is not only applicable to men, but also to women. However, in our society, many women are too frugal and even too picky in life because they want to get a better education for their children, which is cheap in the eyes of men.
In the TV series "Dear Yourself", the protagonist Zhang Zhizhi is too frugal in order to receive the best education for her children, and even patches together her clothes, as a result, her husband gradually Xi her low-profile life and has less and less respect for her.
Suggestion: Women should know how to take care of themselves and their image, invest in their quality of life in a timely manner, and make themselves more confident and cute.
The second point: indulgence is not self-sufficient.
Writer Su Qin once said: "The last thing a woman can't lose is that she has scale, measure, and taste." However, in real life, many women have no sense of proportion in the relationship between friends of the opposite sex, and excessive intimacy will only make men lose respect.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", the protagonist Lin Youyou often takes the initiative to express his affection to colleagues or friends, without any self-knowledge. In the eyes of men, such behavior will only make women more insecure and less visible.
Suggestion: Women need to always pay attention to their bottom line and scale, distinguish between right and wrong, and not lose themselves because of immediate interests.
The third point: complaining and lack of respect.
Whether you are a man or a woman, it is very easy to complain when you encounter something annoying. However, excessive complaints by women will only make themselves more negative and helpless, easy to push away the people around them, and lose trust and respect for each other.
In the TV series "Our Love", Ding Xue often complains and ridicules her husband, which leads to the breakup of the two. Therefore, women should try to avoid excessive complaining and maintain their respect at all times.
Suggestion: Women need to always remind themselves to balance their emotions, actively communicate, and avoid "treating others as themselves".
Fourth: blind obedience.
Many women will choose blind obedience due to fear of hurt and separation, and such behavior is not cute in the eyes of men, but will make the other party start to not cherish themselves.
For example, Zhang Xueliang's wife, Yu Fengzhi, blindly catered to her husband's will for a long time, but her obedience did not get anything in return, and in the end she did not realize the value of her life.
Suggestion: Women need to remind themselves to be assertive and bottom line, know how to refuse unreasonable requests, and don't easily give up their rights and interests in life.
In short, the most important thing for a woman is to manage her life and image and gain self-recognition and respect. In any case, women must maintain their independence and dignity so that they can be cherished and cared for by men, and at the same time, they can gain more quality of life and happiness.