Willing to fly in the sky like a winged bird and form branches on the ground. Love is regarded as sacred and pure, and many people yearn for love that meets, knows and stays together, but how many people can truly be loyal to only one person for life?
How many couples can hold hands and walk to the white head?
In the entertainment industry, many couples are in love with each other, but they end up breaking up soon after they get married. For example, Yang Mi and Hawick Lau, Yang Ying and Huang Xiaoming and many other couples, when the public learned about their relationship, they all silently blessed them and were optimistic about their love, who would have thought that their love would eventually break down.
In the entertainment industry, this kind of love has become commonplace, and even so, there are still many perfect romantic love stories. Today's protagonists are Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei, in this hurried era of love, their feelings have not been affected in the slightest. Now, they have been together for 26 years, and the family of four lives happily ever after.
Promise to mother: Don't fall in love
In 1970, Ren Chengwei was born in a poor family in Heilongjiang. There are four boys in this family, and Ren Chengwei is the third. His parents' meager income was barely enough to support the family of six, so he and his brothers rarely had the opportunity to change into new clothes throughout the year.
Usually, Ren Chengwei will pick up the small clothes that his brothers wear, and his younger brothers will pick up the small ones they wear. Most of these clothes have undergone countless repairs by the mother.
Despite the patches on their clothes, the four Ren Chengwei brothers never complained, and they slowly grew up in contentment and happiness.
The biggest headache for parents is the problem of eating. When Ren Chengwei was young, the food at home was barely enough, but as they grew up, the amount of food for the four of them increased, and they always ate with relish at every meal, which made their parents very embarrassed.
In order to ensure that the children can grow up healthily, Ren Chengwei's parents have been quietly reducing their own food intake. However, for the four brothers, this practice was just a drop in the bucket.
Fortunately, they are very sensible and have never asked their parents for anything, they just want to grow up as soon as possible so that they can share the pressure of their parents' lives.
At the age of 13, Ren Chengwei's father left the family forever, which made the already poor family even worse. The mother took on all the stresses of life.
At that time, Ren Chengwei's academic performance was mediocre, and he witnessed his mother working day and night, and he knew that in order to change the family's situation, he must rely on his studies to change his fate.
From then on, Ren Chengwei began to study hard, and finally relied on his own efforts to be admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy. This is a great joy for their ordinary family, and his mother and older brothers have given him some financial support, hoping that he will work harder during his college years and carry their expectations forward.
In order not to worry his mother, Ren Chengwei promised his mother that he would study hard when he was in college and never disappoint his family's expectations of him. He also assured that he would not fall in love during college, but would concentrate on his studies and be determined to get ahead.
Huang Lei broke a promise that Cheng Wei had not expected.
Meet, get to know each other, love each other "breaks" promises
After coming to the Shanghai Theater Academy, Ren Chengwei felt that everything was so strange to this "poor boy" in the countryside, but it was full of **. He is eager to adapt quickly and dedicate himself to his studies.
At that time, at school, Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei met. Huang Lei wears simple clothes, but shows a noble and untouchable temperament, like a noble, simple and fragrant lotus flower in summer. Ren Chengwei was deeply attracted to Huang Lei. At this time, the promise to his mother appeared in his mind, and he had to hide this love deep in his heart.
Huang Lei also had a good impression of Ren Chengwei in her heart, which Ren Chengwei didn't know. When she first met Ren Chengwei, his height of more than one meter gave her a sense of security, and at the same time, she also had a good impression of Ren Chengwei's honest and honest atmosphere.
Since they are classmates, it is inevitable that they will meet each other in their daily lives. Every time their eyes met, they revealed shyness like never before.
Gradually, the two became friends, and after a long conversation, they got to know each other's family background, character, and moral character.
Gradually, they began to express their hearts frankly, and in the end, Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei broke the ethereal barrier between each other and came together.
The school did not support students in dating at the time because the teachers felt that it would have a negative impact on their academics. Therefore, the teachers found Huang Lei privately, hoping that she could break up with Ren Chengwei as soon as possible.
Because Ren Chengwei is from the countryside, and Huang Lei is from the city, not only can the problem of being the right person not be ignored, even if the two become pairs, Huang Lei's future development will inevitably face many obstacles, after all, a powerless countryman like Ren Chengwei cannot give Huang Lei good support in his career.
As a female college student with new ideas, Huang Lei naturally does not agree with the teacher's opinion. She firmly believes that as long as two people love each other and encourage each other to work together, they will be able to live a good life. Therefore, Huang Lei did not follow the teacher's advice, but insisted on choosing to be with Ren Chengwei.
The teacher found that Huang Lei's mind was difficult to change, so he turned to Ren Chengwei, hoping that he could find a breakthrough. The teacher said similar things to Ren Chengwei, but Ren Chengwei did not waver, but turned pressure into motivation, worked hard to learn professional knowledge, and always actively participated in school performances, playing the leading role many times.
Ren Chengwei earned some extra income through various performances, big and small, and he managed this hard-earned pocket money very carefully. He divided the money into three parts, one part was sent home, one part was used to buy gifts for Huang Lei, and a very small part was used as his own living expenses.
A heavy rain poured down, and Ren Chengwei suddenly realized that the weather has always been raining recently, but Huang Lei didn't have a pair of rain boots.
So he immediately borrowed an umbrella and went to the mall to buy rain boots for Huang Lei. After buying the rain boots, Ren Chengwei was worried that the rain would wet the shoes, so he hid the rain boots in his clothes and hurried in the direction of Huang Lei.
Ren Chengwei was soaked, but when he handed the rain boots to Huang Lei, there was not a drop of water on the rain boots. Huang Lei looked at him, her heart was full of emotion, and she had more confidence in this tall man.
The school once gave Ren Chengwei two pieces of soap. Although soap is not a precious thing for other students, it is a rare luxury for Ren Chengwei.
Therefore, when many students changed the soap for snacks, Ren Chengwei decided to put away the soap. He didn't plan to use them himself, but wanted to give them to Huang Lei.
After receiving the soap, Huang Lei felt very moved, because she knew that this piece of soap was a precious item that Ren Chengwei was reluctant to use. This made her more aware of how much Ren Chengwei in front of her loved herself and what a trustworthy man he was.
Huang Lei did not use these two pieces of soap, but secretly stuffed them into Ren Chengwei when he came home, and asked him to take them back for his mother to use. Only the mutual understanding, companionship and support between Huang Lei and Ren Chengwei can constitute true romantic love.
The marriage of "nine yuan", endure hardships together and work hard together
The two soon graduated from school, and Huang Lei saw that her friends around her had entered into marriage, and she felt envious, but also began to feel anxious. She felt that now was the right time, so she asked Ren Chengwei to get married.
Huang Lei comforted Ren Chengwei and said that her expectations for marriage had sprouted many times. But he was worried that his career would not go well, his family was poor, that Huang Lei's parents would object, and that he was afraid that he would not be able to give her a decent wedding. After listening to Ren Chengwei's words, Huang Lei expressed her wish that she just wanted to be with him forever.
After Huang Lei said this, Ren Chengwei was silent for a moment, and then proposed to choose an auspicious day to get married. After a long wait, finally on November 14, 1996, the two spent 9 yuan to get a marriage certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau.
The two did not hold a grand wedding, because Ren Chengwei did not have enough financial resources to hold it, so they just invited some friends to a banquet and announced the news of their marriage. Ren Chengwei felt that he owed Huang Lei, and promised her that he would definitely hold a romantic wedding for her in the future to make up for this regret.
After Huang Lei and Ren Chengwei got married, they lived in a basement for 7 years, with an area of only 10 square meters. Despite this, Huang Lei has never complained, and she thinks that as long as she can be with Ren Chengwei, it is enough. Both have jobs, so she believes that good days will come.
Huang Lei and Ren Chengwei have been working hard for the future. Huang Lei didn't dare to be absent every day, she worked in dubbing from morning to night, and insisted on not leaving her post even if she was sick.
And Ren Chengwei is taking over the play, although most of the time he only plays the role of a trick, he still has strong expectations for the future.
When reality slowly smoothed out Ren Chengwei's fighting spirit, Huang Lei was always able to give him trust and enlighten his heart as soon as possible, which allowed him to stick to his acting work, even if it was just a trick. With the trust and help of his wife, Ren Chengwei devoted himself to his work and looked forward to his future ambitions.
In 2001, someone finally discovered Ren Chengwei and gave him the opportunity to star in "Snow Without a Trace". In the play, Ren Chengwei won praise from the audience with his outstanding performance and won the trust of many directors. As his acting career took off, Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei's lives became richer and happier.
Just when everyone was worried that the rich man would become depraved and that Ren Chengwei would abandon his poor wife, Ren Chengwei still loved Huang Lei deeply, not only kept his distance from other women and stayed away from scandals, but also had two lovely daughters with Huang Lei, which was the crystallization of their love. The family lived happily ever after.
After Huang Lei had a daughter, she gradually withdrew from the entertainment industry, taking care of her children and housework at home. Seeing his wife's sacrifice, Ren Chengwei was distressed, and every time he finished filming, he went home to accompany his wife and children as soon as possible.
Ren Chengwei's career is thriving day by day, and his friends around him began to jokingly ask him if he was interested in changing to a new wife. Although Ren Chengwei, who has always been harmonious, suddenly said seriously that he would never abandon Huang Lei, and hoped that his friends would not make such jokes in the future.
The two have been together for 26 years now, and the baptism of time has consumed many of the passions between them. On weekdays, there will be quarrels over trivial matters, and at the same time, I will feel troubled by the education of my children.
However, life is like this, boredom is mixed with small stumbles, and occasionally there are some small surprises that add a touch of fun to the ordinary life. Such a life can be regarded as a noble and pure love.