Na Ying risked giving birth at the age of 37 in 2004, and at the same time risked having a child out of wedlock, she decided to give birth to the child in her womb.
Her due date was October 15, and that afternoon, she was wheeled into the operating room for a caesarean section and fainted from the painHer sister and father waited anxiously outside the operating room.
Na Ying's fiancé Gao Feng never appeared, and the child's father was the only absent.
It was 9:18 p.m., and Na Ying had a C-section at Beijing United Family Hospital, welcomed her son, and named him a happy name.
Na Ying's arrival did make her very happy, but it did not bring joy to her father Gao Feng;On the contrary, it set off a fierce conflict ......
While Na Ying was still enjoying the joy of becoming a mother, a woman came to her door with Gao Feng's illegitimate child.
The story of 37 years ago is as ethereal as a cloud.
To become a singer you need to have the best talent, and meet love during the rise of your career.
Na Ying was born in Shenyang, Liaoning, and is Na Hong's second child, and she has an older sister. Na Ying's ancestor is the Manchu nobleman Yehenara clan, and the family has been passed down from generation to generation of traditional Chinese medicine. Her birthday was November 27, 1967.
Na Hongsheng originally thought that Na Ying would be able to inherit the mantle and follow him to study Chinese medicine, but unfortunately Na Ying had a jumpy personality since she was a child and could not completely calm down to study medical books.
Naying is very naughty and active, likes to climb over walls and trees, and can do anything. Since her father was busy with work and had little time to discipline her, she was sent to live with her grandparents. However, due to the advanced age of her grandparents, they were unable to devote great energy to disciplining her, so Na Ying even developed the habit of being a demon king of the mixed world, often fighting, climbing trees, and mischievous, and could do anything.
Later, Na Ying left a small scar on her face because of the fight, and she missed her dream of being an actor.
Even if God closes one door, He will open another window for us. When she was a child, Na Ying was good at imitating the teacher's voice in ** class, and this unique voice attracted the first person to appreciate her, so she was recommended to join the vocal ensemble and became a "male lead singer".
This voice gave Na Ying a little fame, but it wasn't long before her shortcomings began to be revealed. At that time, it was a sweet voice that was popular, and Na Ying's voice had some masculine qualities, which directly led to her failure in the selection of the Shenyang Song and Dance Troupe, and she could only serve as a backup singer in the end.
After the lead singer of the song and dance troupe fell ill, this arrangement gave the performance a turning point, and Na Ying was temporarily pushed onto the stage to have the opportunity to show her singing skills to the audience.
The audience found that Na Ying's voice was very similar to the singer Su Rui in this stage performance, so some people began to propose that Na Ying be invited to cover Su Rui's songs, and were willing to pay for the recording**.
In order to expand her popularity and gain benefits, she also gave Na Ying a stage name "Su Bing (Su Ran)", and Na Ying's voice became more active.
Although the people around her were not optimistic about her, Na Ying was not discouraged, and participated in the 199 National Talent Spring "Sunshine Cup" Popular Song Contest with 100 yuan with great interest, and finally won the third place with the song "I Found Myself".
The famous composer Gu Jianfen took a fancy to Na Ying's brilliant performance in this competition and accepted her as his **.
While her sister Na Xin was studying, in order to support her sister Na Ying's singing career, she worked tirelessly to set up a stall to make money to support the lives of the two. Sister Na Ying has also lived up to expectations, and has successively launched some representative works, and finally was signed by Fumao Records in 1993 to become its singer.
In 1994, Na Ying officially signed a contract and released her first Chinese ** "Thinking for You", which was widely acclaimed.
In 1995, she released the second ** "The Darkness of the Day and the Night", and the sales soared to 150,000 in just a dozen days. This year, the foundation of her "Queen of Love Songs" was laid.
That year, Na Ying met a man who made her so infatuated that she even had a child out of wedlock with him regardless of the world's eyes - this man was Gao Feng.
China's No. 1 striker "Gao Feng, has loved football since childhood. He has been selected for the Liaoning Youth Football Team, Beijing Youth Football Team, Beijing Guoan Football Team and other famous teams, and has represented the national team in many competitions and won medals.
Na Ying's fate with Gao Feng originated from a chance encounter.
Mao Ning is a mutual friend of Na Ying and Gao Feng, and it can also be said to be an indirect matchmaker between them. At a party organized by Mao Ning, Gao Feng and Na Ying only sat together across Jinggang Mountain.
Jinggangshan was asked by Na Ying: "Who is this gentleman?"”
Jinggangshan's eyes widened and asked, "You don't even know Gao Feng?"”
Gao Feng turned his head after hearing the conversation, and was surprised to find that he didn't know Na Ying either. So, the two got to know each other like this and left each other's ** numbers.
Both are natives of Shenyang, as the saying goes, "when a fellow sees a fellow countryman, his eyes are full of tears", they soon became acquainted with each other, and their personalities matched each other, and many common interests made them gradually become confidants, and they soon determined the relationship between lovers.
Despite the negative perception of their relationship from the outside world, Na Ying still fell in love with Gao Feng without scruples, and the two chose to live together soon after.
Na Ying worked hard to manage the relationship between her and Gao Feng during the ** period when she became the first sister in the music world, and she paid more price in order to prove that she and Gao Feng could live happily.
She will take time out of her time to compete at the highest peak, and sometimes even cancel her own important events for this. They are often photographed laughing and traveling hand in hand.
The owner of the bar, Meng Tong, met them at a bar near the Beijing Gongti, and because Gao Feng liked to drink, Na Ying was desperate to accompany him to the bar.
At that time, Meng Tong and Na Ying did not know that they would become a family many years later.
Na Ying, a singer with a straightforward and strong personality, may not have thought that she would desperately pursue the peak of her career for so many years, and even gave birth to Gao Feng's child without marriage registration.
One of them is the most important queen in the world, and the other is the highly-anticipated striker of the national football team, and the relationship between the two has attracted much attention and continues to rise.
Just when people thought they would be a model couple, news suddenly broke that Gao Feng was having an affair with a bar singer and even had an illegitimate child.
Naven Wang is a bar singer who is a fellow villager with Gao Feng, who once ran a bar together in Shenyang, where Naven Wang was also a resident singer. She couldn't forget the pain caused by her boyfriend's death until 2002, when the peak appeared in her life.
She and Gao Feng have a lot of mutual friends and often drink together, which can be said to be a long-term relationship. Wang Naven knew about Gao Feng and Na Ying, so he refused to have an affair with Gao Feng. However, Gao Feng deceived her for personal gain and said that she had broken up with Na Ying.
After Wang Naven found out that he was pregnant, Gao Feng expressed his desire not to want the child, but Wang Naven insisted on deciding to keep the child.
She originally planned to have a good talk with Gao Feng, but after making this decision, she couldn't contact him, so Wang Naven became an unmarried single mother.
By chance, she saw the news about Gao Feng and Na Ying's golden boy and girl, and since then she has completely despaired of this man and raised the child alone.
She is a rational woman, even if Gao Feng did not take her due responsibility, she chose not to entangle with him anymore, and never contacted Gao Feng again.
However, she didn't expect that Gao Feng would choose to deny the incident, and even put the blame on herself, when the child's matter was ***.
Naven Wang found it difficult to accept this, believing that her sincere efforts were ultimately wrong, and at the same time felt that her personality had been insulted.
She decided to change her original idea of drawing a line with Gao Feng and not disturbing each other, because Gao Feng's attitude completely changed her. Wang Naven has already made a decision, she is ready to contact a lawyer, sort out the information to sue Gao Feng, and ask for 70,000 yuan in child support.
Na Ying's sister was worried that her sister might be pregnant because of the news of Gao Feng's cheating, so she avoided letting Na Ying contact the news, hoping to let her take care of her body with peace of mind. However, there is no impermeable wall in the world, and Na Ying still learned about the wind outside.
Na Ying hesitated in her heart and fell into hesitation, and the news of her boyfriend's cheating brought her irreparable pain.
Wang Naven expressed deep sympathy for Na Ying, saying that he hoped to solve the problem between her and Gao Feng and expose Gao Feng's dual behavior. She believes that both of them are victims of deception, so it is necessary to open up the truth.
Although Gao Feng did not admit it, the DNA test results confirmed that there had been a *** incident between Gao Feng and Wang Naven
Na Ying finally made a decision in 2005, ended her 10-year relationship with Gao Feng, and left him with her son Xingxing.
At that time, Na Ying suffered great physical and mental pain, because she suffered betrayal and had to take care of her son, so she could not easily start a new love life.
At that time, Na Ying had to think about not only her own life, but also the son she worked so hard to raise. But as a mother, she has to be strong and cheer up as soon as possible because her son is cute and well-behaved.
When Na Ying restarted her career, her true son also made her debut, who is he?
As the so-called "endless road", the bar owner Meng Tong mentioned above aptly confirms this saying.
Meng Tong had an inexplicable liking when she first met Na Ying, but because she already had Gao Feng as her girlfriend, Meng Tong could only have a sad crush.
Meng Tong once said to a friend under the wine: "If there is no peak, I will definitely pursue Na Ying." ”
Knowing that Na Ying was already single, Meng Tong began to lose no time in contacting her, deliberately arranging chance encounters many times, and actively pursuing her. He personally cooks for Na Ying to prepare his beloved lunch, and always finds opportunities to ask Na Ying to go out for a walk with him on weekdays, etc., which makes Na Ying feel the romantic atmosphere of getting along with her lover.
Na Ying didn't open her heart at first, she felt that she was not worthy of Meng Tong, so she kept avoiding him and didn't want to face his love.
Meng Tong did not give up, he was by Na Ying's side every day, accompanying her, watching her sometimes happy and sometimes sad emotions.
Meng Tong didn't care about how the people around him evaluated their relationship, and he didn't care about the influence of worldly eyes. He promised Na Ying that he would always love her so much, without time and outside interference.
Her frozen heart was gradually moved, and she made a request to Meng Tong: I hope he will be happy like his own son.
Meng Tong naturally knew what Na Ying was worried about, but he also said that he had known Na Ying for a long time and understood her experience and her true thoughts.
Meng Tong expressed his feelings to Na Ying: "I love you deeply, not even just yourself, but everything about you. ”
In 2006, Na Ying married Meng Tong with her two-year-old son, which became a reality.
Their daughter, Apple, was born in the second year of their marriage, becoming a testimony to their love and making the already loving couple even happier.
Na Ying, who has regained her happiness, gradually faded out and is even about to quit the music scene, she just wants to take care of her children wholeheartedly. It wasn't until her daughter was three years old and became more independent that Meng Tong strongly supported Na Ying to return to the music scene and pick up the career she loved, so she re-embarked on the road of career development.
Na Ying's father, Na Hongsheng, and her mother, who are both physically strong, took the initiative to come to Beijing to help their daughter and son-in-law take care of their two children.
Gao Feng rarely took the initiative to see his son, because he always felt a trace of guilt in his heart, and he didn't want to disturb Na Ying's life.
Na Ying once reached an agreement with Gao Feng that in order to allow Gao Feng to have a happy and innocent childhood, Gao Feng could not disclose that he was Gao Gao's biological father, and could only occasionally visit him as an uncle. When you are happy to grow up and have the mental capacity, you will consider telling him your true background.
Meng Tong is a responsible, tolerant and kind man, he treats Na Ying as lovingly and caringly as his own son, and is even more attentive and considerate.
In this warm family environment, the child grows up healthy and happy, and has gradually become a sunny young man.
However, no secret in the world will never be revealed, and luckily, he eventually discovers his true origins.
In 2016, when I was happy to go to junior high school, my naughty classmate asked a question: "Your surname is Gao, your father's surname is Meng, what's going on?"."I'm happy to think about it for a long time, but I can't figure out the mystery.
Na Ying and Meng Tong hardly let their children touch electronic products, and one day after school, the children happily went to the Internet café by themselves and searched for their life experience on the Internet.
It was only at this time that Meng Tong learned that his father was not his biological father.
At that time, Happy was 12 years old and going through puberty, and this cruel reality made him miserable.
This sunny boy, who was originally happy and lively, finally realized it on that day. On the way home, he was happy but full of grievances but had nowhere to vent.
That day, the child's emotions were out of control, and he couldn't even finish his favorite dinner, so he hurriedly left the dining table and returned to the bedroom. Lying on the bed, he stared blankly at the ceiling, tears in his eyes, his heart full of doubts about his mother and stepfather, and the confusion about the future also made him uncertain.
After a while, she noticed her son's abnormal expression, followed in, and probed his forehead with her hand: "Are you ** uncomfortable?".Happy suddenly said irritably: "Mom, you go out, let me be quiet for a while." ”
The son has always been sensible and polite, Na Ying couldn't figure out why he behaved like this for a while, so he had to leave the room.
Subsequently, Na Ying mentioned this matter to her husband Meng Tong, and Meng Tong analyzed it with her parents, believing that the child may have entered puberty, and it is normal for her emotions to be abnormal. After listening to everyone's explanation, Na Ying didn't pay much attention to it anymore and didn't pay too much attention to this little episode.
Since that day, Na Ying has noticed that her son's attitude has changed significantly. He began to become reticent, always with a worried expression on his face, and no longer spoke to anyone. Every time he returned home, he hurried back to his room after eating, and he also tried to avoid his family during holidays and weekends.
Several times, Na Ying saw her son crying while doing his homework through the crack in the door.
She asked her son if anything had happened, but he was happy and stubborn and reluctant to communicate with her. This made Na Ying feel very uncomfortable, because her child was estranged from her, which was difficult for any mother to accept, and even sad.
She tried to communicate with her son, but Happy closed the door and was unwilling to talk to her mother without saying a word. Seeing her son become like this, Na Ying's heart ached like a knife.
Meng Tong observed his son's abnormal behavior, as if he was aware of something.
Once, when he was sorting out his son's school bag, he found that his son had written more than ten times on scratch paper: "Why should I grow up in such a family?"”
The couple immediately found the answer, Na Ying couldn't hold back anymore, squatted down on the ground and cried.
Then, with tears in her eyes, she said to her son, "I'm sorry for not giving you a complete family." ”
Tears filled her joyful eyes, and she questioned and complained to her mother: "Why have you come this far?".Why can't I have a normal family like my classmates?They all looked at me differently, and I became an outlier!”
Meng Tong tried to enlighten his son: "You don't need to feel inferior, the love you receive is no less than that of your classmates." However, these simple words could hardly calm the resentment in his heart.
Subsequently, Meng Tong deliberately went to the school where Xingxing studied, hoping to help Xingxing solve the knot with the assistance of the head teacher. The head teacher deliberately explained Happy Happy's life experience to the students without knowing it, and guided them to give Happy Warmth. With the guidance and help of the teacher, the students began to show their friendliness and enthusiasm for happiness.
Meng Tong treats Happy as if he were his own son, but he treats Happy this child more attentively, taking him to play football and swim on weekends, giving him more fatherly love.
Grandpa cooked food for pleasure and told him about the difficulties that Na Ying has experienced since she entered the music world.
Happy, Meng Tong said to him: "A person's background cannot be chosen, but the way to go depends on oneself." There are so many people who love you, and so many people care about you, so you have to be a happy and sunny teenager. ”
As a spiritual mentor, Meng Tong tirelessly tells inspirational stories, he can't change Happy Complex, but he hopes to inspire Happy to become more brave and strong, face difficulties like other children, and not be afraid of falling.
Under the care of his relatives and friends, he gradually accepted his origin and no longer indulged in life problems. He also got rid of his inferiority complex and slowly recovered to the cheerful and sunny youth he used to be.
When her son was finally able to talk bravely about her origins, Na Ying's tears immediately blurred her eyes. As a mother, she has never been able to make up for her son's regrets, but she is willing to give him more love, comfort him, and encourage him.
Under the careful cultivation of Meng Tong and Na Ying, now Happy has entered the adult stage of 18 years old and has gradually grown into a sunny and handsome young man.
Naying's family is undoubtedly a happy family now, he and her husband Meng Tong have become a good relationship, both children are growing up healthy, the daughter is well-behaved and sensible, and the son is sunny and handsome, filial to take care of his sister and actively share the housework, which makes Meng Tong proud.
Na Ying once behaved violently and bluntly in public, and she once said emotionally: "The wisest decision I have ever made is to marry Meng Tong, who is stupider than me." ”
Maybe the love between her mother Naying and her biological father Gao Feng is not perfect, but this does not mean that their children should bear the damage caused by this relationship. As a stepfather, Meng Tong gave the child warm sunshine in his life, and also redeemed his life to some extent.
Some people think that it is impossible for a man to give wholeheartedly to a non-biological child, but Meng Tong proved them wrong. This is not only a commitment to his wife, but also a duty as a man.
As Meng Tong's son, he is happy and lucky, because he can feel the selfless love of Meng Tong's mother, and her warm care has accompanied him all his life.
May their family enjoy a happy and fulfilling life!