Zeng Shiqiang: There are three signs that a family is thriving, and one is remarkable
In life, we find that a prosperous family is one in which the family is harmonious, the children are filial, and the family is diligent and thrifty.
People who live in such a family also have good luck and happiness in their lives.
On the contrary, if a family does not have harmony, filial piety, and thrift.
Home is not like home, there is a miasma of smoke, and the heart has nowhere to live.
There are often these three characteristics when a family is thriving, and if you have one, it is amazing.
01: Diligence and thrift.
Zeng Guofan said: The prosperity of family fortune lies in harmony, filial piety, diligence and thrift.
Zeng Guofan is very good at running a family, not only is he in a high position, but many children of the family have become pillars of talent under his words and deeds.
The Zeng family has talents from generation to generation, which is closely related to Zeng Guofan's concept of advocating diligence and thrift.
Diligence is the root of prosperity, thrift is the pot of treasure, a family, the more diligent and thrifty, the more prosperous and prosperous.
A down-to-earth and hard-working family will accumulate wealth little by little, and one day, it will be able to accumulate into a mountain and become prosperous.
The Tang Dynasty poet Zhang Ji said: A prosperous family is like picking up soil with a needle, and a losing family is like a wave of sand.
Hong Kong star Stephen Chow, a person worth more than 100 million, does not smoke, does not drink, does not drive luxury cars, does not wear famous brands, replaces a few sweatshirts in private, and usually eats by himself at home.
Mainland star Gao Yuanyuan is also very diligent and thrifty, and if he can take the subway or bus when he goes out, he will never drive. I don't usually wear expensive clothes, so I just need to wear them comfortably.
A family where everyone pursues luxury, the family style is bound to be easy and hardworking, and there will even be unscrupulous children and grandchildren who indulge in lust.
Such a family is constantly in trouble and will not be able to prosper.
Only a diligent and thrifty family, regardless of whether the children of the family are successful or not, at least will not be extravagant and wasteful, and squander the loser.
Everyone can take care of the family with diligence, which is the way of family prosperity.
02: Know filial piety.
The ancients said: "The sky cannot be passed, and the family is scattered unruly." ”
It's just that there are no rules.
Filial piety comes first, the biggest rule of a family, in the final analysis, is to respect parents and elders.
Some people think that buying a house, hiring a nanny, eating a big meal, and going on a trip are filial piety to their parents.
But we ignore the respect and comfort for our parents emotionally, the verbosity and slowness of our parents, not complaining when they are sick, and giving our parents a good face, in fact, this is also a kind of filial piety.
Not every drop of water can be reciprocated by a spring, and not every child can repay the kindness of their parents.
The greatest achievement of a family is to raise a child who knows how to be grateful.
Star Deng Chao has raised his stepmother with filial piety for 18 years, Tong Dawei awakens his vegetative father with filial piety, there are too many people around us, and they are all filial.
Children know how to be grateful, and all the efforts of their parents will not be in vain, but will be transformed into incentives, and finally give back to the family, and then go to prosperity.
Gratitude is the foundation of a family and the foundation of a prosperous family.
If you want a family to be prosperous for a long time, you must inherit filial piety and let future generations respect the old and love the young, so as to create a prosperous atmosphere for the family.
03: Family harmony.
The Book of Rites has clouds: father and son, brotherhood, husband and wife, and the fat of the family.
Only in harmony can everything be prosperous.
A harmonious relationship between husband and wife is also the best feng shui for the family.
If the family members get along well with each other, the family business will prosper.
Everything in life does not go well because of temper. Having a temper hurts others, and it hurts yourself.
The temper is there, and the blessing does not dare to come. When the temper is gone, the blessing can be kept.
It is also understood that in this life, people win in harmony, lose in temper, and become in the atmosphere.
If you're right, there's no need for you to lose your temper;If you're wrong, you're not qualified to lose your temper. This is the real great wisdom.
It's instinct to take out your temper;It is the ability to suppress the temper. ”
Only by repairing one's temper will good luck come to the door.
There is a good saying: 10,000 sentences are to blame you, it is better to accompany you than one sentence.
There are too many chicken feathers in life, as long as you take a step back and understand each other, the days will get better and better.
A family, whether internally or externally, must be harmonious, and harmony is the foundation of a prosperous family.
The prosperity of the family is inseparable from the participation and dedication of each of us, and the above signs are just some common characteristics summarized by our predecessors.
I hope we can get some useful inspiration from it, and use it to run our own family, and we will have a happy family.
Encourage you all.
May all people of the same frequency in the world meet here. I'm Uncle Hui, thank you for reading.