As the saying goes: loyalty and generosity are far away, and home and everything is prosperous. My family is an ordinary family, but also a warm and happy family of five: father-in-law, mother-in-law and husband, me and my son, who is 4 years old this year. Our family, like most families, is an ordinary family in the world, although there are no vigorous deeds, but we use our tolerance, diligence, simplicity and care to interpret our most real happy life. 
1. Virtue, inheritance and development.
My father was recruited from the coal mine in the 50s, and came to work in the propaganda department of the mining company from his rural hometown in Pinglu, and my mother graduated from junior high school, first worked as an operator at the ** transfer station, and then started her own business and ran a small restaurant.
For as long as I can remember, I don't have the grandiose family style, family motto, or warning motto in my mind, only the impression that my father was busy with work and my mother led the three of us sisters in the house. From the fact that our parents took my grandmother from our rural hometown to live in a workers' village bungalow with only 30 square meters (two small bedrooms and a living room), and took care of them in every way and never spoke back, we realized the meaning of "filial piety";From my father's hard work to achieve various honors, and my mother's tireless work to keep the family of six in order, we realized the meaning of "diligence";From the fact that we borrowed the portable briquette machine to our neighbors before we finished beating the briquettes, we realized the meaning of "goodness".From the matter of saving money and repaying the 1,000 yuan loan of relatives in time, we realized the meaning of "integrity";From my mother's persistence in leading me to overcome my fear of morning jogging throughout the year when I was in middle school, we realized the meaning of "tenacity". In addition, I vaguely remember that my parents often taught us to "prepare for the rainy day, not to dig a well when we are thirsty", and "words must be done, and deeds must be fruitful". I think this is our family's family style, family motto, although it can not make people passionate, but it can be unforgettable.
2. Advocating virtue and virtue, and being grateful for feedback.
There are poems and books in the belly, and its quality is exalted;There are poems and books in the belly, and his virtue is humble;There are poems and books in the belly, and his body is upright. The original intention of cultivating children to read is not to hope that children will be outstanding when they grow up, but mainly to cultivate their sentiments and let them grow into a physically and mentally healthy child. People who read books talk fresh and extraordinary, have steady and dignified manners, think actively and profoundly, and are confident but not conceited. This is the goal that our family pursues, and it is also an extraordinary harvest in an ordinary life.
The Xi of reading is the accumulation of bits and pieces of daily life, and it is the subtle influence of the family. In order to cultivate children's interest in reading, every night before going to bed, I will show him his favorite flipbooks, in order to let the children have a good reading environment, I also specially configured desks and bookcases for children. Now my son's collection of books is very rich, with more than 300 books, ranging from the best books selected by my son to all kinds of reading materials recommended by classmates, friends, and teachers in history, geography, and popular science. Now, the child not only likes to watch and listen to himself, but also is willing to tell us what he knows about popular science. In the course of the lecture, some questions are often asked for us to answer. Due to our lack of popular science knowledge, we often can't answer his questions, so we will check the Internet to answer his questions. Sometimes we would ask him some questions about his topic, and he would be very excited when he answered, and when he didn't, he would go further to consult books or look up the Internet, and when he had more knowledge than us and became a "teacher", he felt a sense of accomplishment. At the same time, his son has been fond of painting since he was a child, so he enrolled in a painting class, in his own words: "Whenever I am depressed, I just want to sit there and paint quietly, and painting can make me happy!".”。
Some people say that if love only stays between a family, then this kind of love is a small love, if this kind of love, this love extends to relatives, friends, neighbors and strangers, it will achieve a kind of great love. In daily life, as long as there is something that relatives and neighbors need help, we must not say a word and help as much as possible.
Everything in the world is beautiful because of harmony, warm because of harmony, and this is true of society, and this is also true of families. This is our ordinary and happy family, and I am deeply comforted to have such a happy family!