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Wen Feiyu. 
Have you ever thought about other people's feelings first, for fear that others will blame you?
Have you ever been trying to please others, afraid of being left out of the cold, afraid that others will not like you?
Do you always squeeze into some circles, but it is not suitable for you, and you always seek perfection.
You are always cautious, trembling, trying your best to please others, just wanting to be recognized by others, but in the end it is your own wishful thinking.
You are always prone to thinking too much because of other people's words, you are always thinking about how to make others look at you more, you always want others to take you seriously, and you will wronged yourself to do things you don't like.
Now that I think about it, half a life has passed, and I don't want to please anyone anymore, but I want to live well for myself and live the life I like.
1. Half of my life has passed, and I don't want to invite too much into my life.
After being tired, I realized that many times in life, it is because I care too much about other people's thoughts, because there are too many bad people and bad things in my life to entangle myself, but I am embarrassed to refuse, and I will make myself very tired if I respond to others' needs.
Half a life has passed, I have figured it out, I don't want so many people to stay in my life, I don't want so many people to dictate my life, I don't want to pay for so many people, I just want to live my life comfortably, I just want to leave time for myself, let myself have a little more time to be alone, and a little more time to enjoy my life.
Half a life has passed, I have learned to break away, I have learned to clean up my circle, I have learned to relax myself, and I will no longer please anyone, but please myself, treat myself, let myself relax, and slowly feel the beauty of life, I no longer need so many friends, and I don't want to integrate into so many circles, so I reduced my socialization, learned to refuse some unreasonable requests from others, and no longer be a bad person.
Second, half of your life has passed, just be yourself.
After people reach middle age, they don't want to cater to anyone anymore, they just want to be themselves quietly, and they just want to live a comfortable life.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "We were so eager for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end: the most beautiful scenery in life is actually the calmness and calmness of the heart; We had been so hopeful of recognition from the outside world that we finally realized that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others. ”
In fact, life is also someone else's, it has nothing to do with us, we don't always have to care about other people's opinions, and we don't have to envy other people's lives, but do our best, live a down-to-earth life, don't cater to others, don't embarrass ourselves, and make ourselves sad.
If people can't see people's hearts clearly, they are hurt and used by others, and they don't know it, and in the end they suffer a loss, only to understand that some people are not worthy of pleasing themselves.
Half a life has passed, although we go our own way, live our own life, do what we have to do, we don't have to pay attention to so much, and we don't have to let ourselves get involved in other people's lives, but firm our own choices and move forward bravely.
3. Half of your life has passed, please yourself.
The most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart, don't give up your pursuit in order to cater to others, and don't lose yourself in order to please others.
Life in the world, to please yourself well, not to please others, in order to please others and wronged yourself, it really shouldn't, everyone should have their own pursuits, should also have their own favorite life, can do their best to live their own life, is the most important.
Life is not easy for anyone, don't always consume others, don't always ask others, be responsible for your own life, instead of always revolving around others.
If you're not good at socializing, if you don't want to interact with people that much, and you don't know how to get along with others, then you don't have to embarrass yourself, just live your own life.
We don't live for those who don't like us, and if you encounter someone pointing fingers at you behind your back, you don't have to care, because you don't have to like them at all, and don't hurt yourself because of their behavior.
No matter how good people are, they will also meet people who don't like them, people want to live their true selves, they don't have to go against their hearts, they don't have to disguise themselves, the three views are the same, they can naturally talk together, the three views are different, and they don't have to be integrated.
Half a life has passed, and none of us please ourselves, but ourselves.
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