People often say that physiological liking is true liking, but at times, this physiological liking is easy to bring some invisible ***
For example, if you meet someone you feel very emotional, but he is reluctant to invite you out and never gives you a gift in return, in the eyes of others, he may be considered stingy, but in your eyes, it is at most a small flaw, and even becomes his frugality.
At first, you may not mind this, but over time, you will feel uncomfortable, and this is the effect of character.
Character is mainly reflected in a person's attitude towards others, the bottom line of dealing with problems, and the stress response in special situations
Is it selfishness and self-interest, only thinking about one's own interests and not hesitating to destroy the interests of others, or respecting others and pursuing a win-win situation?Is he humble and calm, or is he habitually dumping, hot and cold violence, and so on.
In today's world, it's not just about being afraid of strong opponents, but also about those teammates who will backstab, find someone with good character, even if you don't tell him all the secrets, even if he takes the initiative to leave you, you will only feel a little sad at most, and you won't be hurt too much, and those people with poor character, they each have their own tragedies.
The influence of character in a relationship goes far beyond whether the other person loves you and to what extent. Although it may seem like a superficial soft power, it is extremely important in any relationship, and people with poor character will touch all your thunder points in the relationship.
In terms of money, no matter how much property he owns, he is always thinking about other people's wallets, he will fool you into investing, and when you transfer the money to him, he will immediately shift your position and push you to the brink of bankruptcy.
He will even unite with others to get your money, without mercy, he will calculate you, even your parents, family, and friends, in daily life, he likes to do some dishonorable things behind your back, if you poke it, he will have a cold war with you.
Even if he is caught on the spot, he will not coax you, let alone apologize, he doesn't care about your feelings at all, if you push him too hard, he will quarrel with you, without backing down, and push all the problems on you, saying that you are unreasonable and calculating.
These extremely selfish men only pay attention to their own feelings, only feel sorry for themselves, and most of them take women's contributions for granted and do not know how to be grateful.
They treat women who are good to them as servants, with a strong desire to dominate and possess, and if you ask them to respect you, it is a pipe dream.
These people are far more destructive than that, approaching someone with a bad character will definitely become the worst nightmare of your life, they will never be stingy with sweet words, and they like to praise your clothes, temperament, and talent and hard work.
However, these compliments will only be said in front of you, and no matter who you introduce him to, he will use your embarrassment to liven up the atmosphere, and even use your privacy to prove how much you trust him, and you will never know that he is exaggerating in front of others, nor will he know that his good brother is already very familiar with your figure and lines.
If you think he might be someone who has the resources to work with and just in time to be able to combine with your girlfriend's business, you might want him to take care of your girlfriend.
And he will indeed take care of your best friend, he will care about her from the inside out and make her happy, doesn't he understand what you mean?Or does he treat you as a tool that you can use at any time, skip to the next one when you're done, and enjoy all that you have at the same time?
Your heartfelt dedication to him, he will keep going in and out of your heart, you are addicted to his charm, but you are only used by him repeatedly, such a person, do you dare to be with him for a long time?
Don't think that bad character will only show itself on major issues of right and wrong, in fact, in many small things in life, the game of character is also everywhere.
Key factors that cannot be ignored When choosing a partner, why character is more important than physical appearance
No matter how nice a man usually speaks, no matter how good he usually does, the real him will often be revealed when there is a conflict or conflict of interest, so that he can know whether he is reliable or not.