Whether their children are smart and have a high IQ should be a question that most parents will care about.
After all, smart children are more capable Xi learn all sorts of new things, therefore, educating them can reduce the pressure on their parents. Moreover, a child with a high IQ means that he or she is closer to success than others and always ends up being the best kind of person in society.
However, with the spread of culture and education, parents have many new things to Xi in educating their children, such as the need to pay attention to their children's emotional intelligence.
The word EQ sounds more than IQ"Advanced", but in layman's terms, the level of emotional intelligence is reflected in the different ways in which people deal with the world.
The level of IQ will be affected by the genetic inheritance of the parents, which means that the IQ of the child is already determined when he is born. Emotional intelligence is different, people's emotional intelligence can be changed after tomorrow, and the growth environment and parents' education will have an impact on children's emotional intelligence.
Therefore, high emotional intelligence can be cultivated, and the earlier the child receives education, the better the effect, so parents must work more in this area.
In fact, most children with low emotional intelligence will have these three performances, and it is not too late to correct them.
1. Love to poke the sore spots of other children to elevate themselves
This kind of behavior can be said to be the most annoying, joking about other people's sore spots to elevate yourself, this kind of thing is especially for children, children are not sensible, thinking that this is a very interesting thing, but it is precisely the children themselves who are simple and vulnerable.
If the child is defective, he will have low self-esteem, and if he encounters such a thing again, he will not feel comfortable, so if parents find that their child has this kind of behavior, they must pay attention to timely education and timely correction.
2. Xi trouble others
When a child Xi used to having his parents do the work for him, he or she will think that he or she can get help from others as a matter of course. So in social life, children are Xi to trouble others, even if they can do things independently, they will blame others because they want to be lazy.
3. Always like to complain
We all know that whether it is for children or adults, when encountering problems or difficulties, the first thing is not to choose to solve the problem, but to blindly shirk responsibility or complain, then this is a manifestation of very low emotional intelligence. You must know that for children, it is the time to grow and develop and accept a good educational concept, if you don't want your child to only escape and complain when you encounter something, as a parent, you must guide your child to face it positively from a positive point of view, and accompany your child to deal with problems together, rather than letting your child be silent and not mention it.
If parents often complain about their unsatisfactory life and work in front of their children, then for a long time, after the children are exposed to the ears and eyes, they will also develop the Xi of parents, so if you want your child's emotional intelligence to be high, you may wish to give your child an excellent role model first.
Summary: In fact, children's education has always been valued by parents, but most people only pay attention to academic Xi performance, and there is a lack of cultivation in personality, emotional intelligence, and way of thinking.
Parents can pay more attention to setting a good example in life, emotions have a very important impact on people's life growth, most parents just pay too much attention to their children's external growth and ignore their children's internal growth. If you want your child to grow up comprehensively, completely, and healthily, you need parents to pay attention to their child's inner growth.
Children's growth process is inseparable from the growth and detachment of emotions, and helping children better understand their emotions at the age of 0 6 is conducive to children's future growth.
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