In life, the essence of many things is perverse.
The old comrade in the office told the story of his friend. My friend is the vice president of the Municipal People's Hospital, and it was suddenly found out that it was an advanced stage of cancer, and the specific cancer was not very clear, in short, it was difficult to treat.
As a doctor, my friend knows very well that he refuses chemotherapy and everything is useless**, and he took a long vacation to visit the whole country to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. Half a year later, my friend left, leaving no regrets.
This can't help but remind me of the TV series "Tiandao".
:* Ying's "cold-blooded and ruthless" in "The Way of Heaven" is precisely his thinking logic beyond ordinary people.
* Ying, a private equity manager, is mythologized by the TV series for his anti-human choices and judgments. What impressed me the most was his choice of two things and his attitude towards things.
First things first:**Ying's father was seriously ill, and there was a family disagreement on the question of whether to save or not. And **Ying's attitude seems to be very cold-blooded, give up**. And left a ruthless and indifferent word for his mother: show that the father deserves to die.
This deviant remark was angrily reprimanded by his mother and eldest brother, who scolded him for being unfilial.
But look at the essence through the phenomenon: **Ying's decision seems to be deviant, and it is indeed the most correct or pragmatic decision.
There are three reasons: first, Ying's father is terminally ill and belongs to the dying of life, in this case, although the father has the characteristics of a living body and the brain is still conscious, but the organs have failed and he is unable to return to heaven. At this time, the medical first aid was only to delay the death of the father. But as everyone knows, it will bring great pain to my father. Of course, this is not felt by mothers and eldest brothers with limited education and cognition, but they are emotionally reluctant to leave their relatives.
Second, it is not allowed economically. First aid is expensive, and delaying it for a day can be expensive. Let's say, except for **Ying, Brother Ding, and Little Sister Ding are all ordinary families, and they still rely on **Ying from time to time. **Brother Ying claimed to save his father by smashing pots and selling iron, but he didn't know that he was just talking. In the face of reality, smashing the pot and selling iron is not enough for a day's cost. From the illness to the end, even if he smashes the pot and sells the iron and the house, his father will eventually leave. From the perspective of the father's emotion, the father who has been simple all his life is even more reluctant to bear the psychological burden of leaving a huge debt to his descendants after he leaves.
The third is that instead of letting the father die slowly and painfully, it is better to let the father leave quickly with dignity. I think this is also the original intention of **ying to pull out the oxygen tube. In China's traditional education, children must abide by filial piety. But what is filial piety, is it filial piety to slowly watch the painful death of the father?True filial piety is to fulfill one's due obligations in life, filial piety from the heart, not foolishness.
The second thing is that Rui Xiaodan's death, **Ying's attitude.
Many people don't understand, **Ying's indifferent attitude, it seems that nothing has happened, and he didn't even go to condolence, and he didn't say a word of sensationalism. But when he learned that Rui Xiaodan was going to die for the first time, he sighed, "When you live, you live, and when you die, you die."
*Doesn't Ying love Rui Xiaodan?Not necessarily, spitting blood from his mouth could not hide the extreme sadness in his heart.
Then why didn't he stop Rui Xiaodan from committing suicide?He knows Rui Xiaodan's personality very well, a woman with a strong nature, who has suffered a huge accident (the lower half of her body was blown up), it is impossible to live under the pity of others, so he knows that Rui Xiaodan has already made up her mind to leave with honor and dignity, and it is useless to persuade her.
Why didn't Ding explain his emotional indifference to Rui Xiaodan?Rui Xiaodan gave **Ying** before committing suicide, and Rui's colleagues angrily scolded him for why he didn't stop Rui from committing suicide. And Ding didn't explain, because they didn't understand Rui Xiaodan. In others' opinion, it is better to die than to live, but in Rui's eyes, it is better to live than to die with dignity. In Ding's eyes, people will eventually die, whether Rui is dead or alive, they all follow their hearts and live openly.
We will also encounter many things in life, but more often than not, most of our choices are superficial or worldly views, without thinking clearly about the laws or truths behind things, but blindly following the herd, which often brings a lot of distress and anxiety
The above is just a superficial understanding of the way of heaven. The moral of this book is very profound, if you want to succeed, you must first start from your own heart, so that you can also have a superior way of thinking, and constantly improve yourself, so that you can succeed.
For friends who want to learn the thinking mode of Xi masters, learn Xi business wisdom, and want to make their career development better through the wisdom in "The Way of Heaven", in addition to watching TV series, you must not miss the original work of "The Way of Heaven" ** "Distant Savior".
When the TV series was broadcast, in order to pass the review, a lot of content in ** was deleted, such as: **Ying and Han Chufeng attacked traditional culture, **Ying went to Wutai Mountain to discuss with the master, etc., these are just flashes in the TV series, but there are detailed dialogues in **, everyone must benefit a lot from reading it.
The most classic is not actually the storyline, but the TV series only retains the storyline, and a lot of wisdom is not shown, everyone wants to know more about the wisdom of "Heavenly Dao", there is no way to feel it by watching the TV series, only through ** can we more completely understand the profound truth conveyed to us by the author.
In addition to this "Distant Savior", there are two other works of the same classic by the author: "Betrayal" and "Red Dust in the Sky", these three ** are called "Doudou Trilogy" by readers, these three books have a strong sense of reality, they are full of Doudou's wisdom about business, I believe it can help everyone.
Reading Doudou's works can give everyone a new direction when they are confused, find the strength to start again when they are frustrated, and make everyone more confident in business competition and smoother on the road to success.
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