Love makes people happy and sad. It has never been a fixed image, sometimes two people love each other, can move the world, after all, from not knowing each other to each other's intimate acquaintance, it is really rare;But sometimes, as the joke on the Internet says, two people used to be so close that there was no distance, but in the end, they became each other's circle of friends and couldn't get in at all. Since love will arise, it will also disappear. When you have seen a man who holds you in his hands and loves you with his heart, if he doesn't love you anymore, you will have a very clear perception. 
When a man is unwilling, it is enough to continue to give you the following things to prove that you are no longer worth mentioning in his mind. 1. A man who is unwilling to give you money no longer loves youTo fall in love with someone is to run to give. As stated in the book "Intimate Relationships":
Falling in love with someone is not about what you can get, but about finally having something to do.Taking the initiative to spend money for a loved one is the best way for a man to win favor and show his love in front of a woman. Because, money represents a man's heart.
is like Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only", he and Lin Youyou have known each other for a while because of work, but they have already put each other in their hearts, but they dare not face each other directly because they are married. Knowing that Lin Youyou gave up his job in Beijing and came to find him, Xu Huanshan's first reaction was that the other party had no job, and a girl came to him alone, how should he deal with himself. So he immediately rented a house for the other party out of his own pocket, covering Lin Youyou's three meals a day and daily life. 
Their affair was discovered by his wife, Xu Huanshan chose the former between his wife and Lin Youyou, took back all his good, and was unwilling to spend money on Lin Youyou. Money is the touchstone of relationships, and it can also test people's hearts. A man who is willing to spend money on you is not necessarily a man who loves you, it is possible, and it is an innocuous existence for him;But if a man is not willing to spend money on you, he must not love you. Compared with money, money is the priority in his mind, and your position in his mind may not be worth mentioning. 
Second, a man who is unwilling to give you time does not love you at allAfter breaking up with my ex, I regretted it for a long time. I always feel that we shouldn't break up with each other, after all, the beautiful moments we have experienced are so real. So despite the pride in my heart, I still took the initiative to lower my posture to stay, but I didn't expect that the other party had insisted on leaving, and he didn't give me the slightest chance to stay. I asked him out to meet him, and he said he was busyI wanted to find him for dinner and he said he didn't have time. 
I knew that he wouldn't be so busy that he didn't even have time to take it out to eat with me, but I still didn't give up, and asked him with a blank eye: Don't you even want to give me a little time?He replied in the affirmative, and in an instant all his emotions and beliefs collapsed, and I knew that I was not even as good as an ordinary friend in his mind. A man's time is in**, and his heart is in**. If he loves you, he also needs you to take the initiative to create an opportunity for two people to intersect, and he will become the active person in the relationship. 
Take the initiative to give your time and hope to meet you;Take the initiative to give you companionship, and hopefully be able to participate a little more in your life. No one is so busy that they don't even have time to manage relationships, so the act of not being willing to give time is just an excuse to stop loving you. As Sanmao said:
You can't hide it if you like someone, and even if you cover your mouth, it will still run out of your eyes.If a man is no longer in love, it is also difficult to disguise, and the alienation he gives and the attitude he begins to become petty towards you are the best proof of not loving someone.
Remember, no matter how much you crave to have a hearty love, a relationship only makes sense if two people go to each other. If you don't love your man, let him go, and let him go is also let go of yourself;Your attention should be on the person who deserves it, and the man who deserves to be taken seriously will definitely take you seriously and praise you as a very happy woman.