In today's society, divorce has become a very common phenomenon. However, even today, many men are still reluctant to marry divorced women.
Many men are influenced by traditional beliefs that divorce is a failure and a shame. They believe that if a woman has ever been divorced, then there must be something wrong with her, so they are reluctant to marry such a woman. This notion is not only present in the minds of men, but even many women have similar thoughts.
Divorce often has a bad impact on children, and many men take this into account and think that if they marry a divorced woman, her children may become a burden to themselves. They worry that they will not be able to get along well with their children, and they are also worried that divorced women have some problems with educating their children.
Men tend to see marriage differently than women. Women often think of marriage as an emotional union, while men are more concerned with the practical benefits of marriage. Therefore, men often think that a divorced woman has lost the "innocence" of her first marriage, and if she remarries, she is likely to be united because of interests, not because of feelings.
Men are often worried about how they compare themselves to their ex-husbands. If a woman has been divorced, she may compare her ex-husband to her current husband. This can make men feel uneasy and stressed, as they fear that they will not be able to surpass their ex-husbands and gain the sincerity and approval of a woman.
Some men lack self-confidence and they believe that they cannot bring happiness and security to a divorced woman. They worry that they are not capable enough to meet the needs and expectations of women. This lack of self-confidence can make them fear marriage and reluctant to marry a divorced woman.
In conclusion, a man's reluctance to marry a divorced woman is caused by a variety of reasons. However, this does not mean that all men hold this view. In modern society, more and more men are beginning to accept divorced women and are willing to start a new family with them. Everyone has their own ideas and ideas, but it is important to respect each other's choices and experiences.