Why is this paradox?It can be said that selfish people, who are not under much pressure, have a better mentality, and spend every day easily, will naturally be able to live a long life and enjoy a happy life.
The fate of good people is often short-lived, and the situation is relatively bleak. The life of the villain is often long and can have a superior situation. The former, miserable and desolate;The latter is a both.
There is a saying: "People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden." ”If you are nice to others, but others think you are a bully, they will take advantage of you. As the old saying goes: "Good people are not rewarded, and they will be left behind for a thousand years." ”
1. The fable of "Mr. Dong Guo and the Wolf" Hundred Families Help Plan Mr. Dong Guo, a kind reader, encountered a wolf who was chased by a hunter one day. The wolf asked him for help, and Mr. Dongguo took pity on him and agreed to the wolf.
After the wolf escaped from the hunter, he was so hungry that he asked Mr. Dongguo, I am hungry now, and I want to eat you. Mr. Dong Guo realized that he was in danger and fled in a hurry on a donkey.
Luckily, he met the hunter. With the help of the hunters, the wolf was finally eliminated, and Mr. Dongguo also saved his own life.
Bad people tend to take advantage of the weaknesses of good people;Giving in will only give the bad guys an inch;"Cannibalism" is a cruel reality, and there is competition and elimination in **.
2. Why can villains always take advantage of honest people?
In the final analysis, the reason is that bad people have no moral bottom line, while good people are bound by morality. When the moral are at a disadvantage in front of the immoral.
Let's take Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Han Dynasty, and Xiang Yu, the overlord of Western Chu, as examples. Liu Bang, a person without scruples, as long as he can win, he will do whatever it takes, even at the expense of his relatives. Xiang Yu, on the other hand, is a person who abides by morality, he insists on fighting Liu Bang on the battlefield, and is unwilling to go down behind his back.
In fact, Liu Bang is not a completely bad person, and Xiang Yu is not a perfect good person. The difference between them is that the former lacks a sense of morality, while the latter has a strong sense of morality. This is also the reason why Liu Bang was able to succeed and Xiang Yu failed.
The reason why villains can easily handle honest people is also because they are scheming, while honest people are too frank. It's normal for villains to take advantage of honest people
3. Honest people are always calm, and they can endure it. The villain has to be aggressive and aggressive.
An honest man is like a docile sheep. The villain is like a hungry wolf, the more obedient the sheep is, the more unscrupulous the wolf becomes, until one day the wolf will eat the sheep.
Su Xun once described in "The Theory of the Six Kingdoms": "Cut five cities today, cut ten cities tomorrow, and then sleep peacefully." Looking at the four realms, and the Qin soldiers are at the top. "During the Warring States Period, in the face of the pressure of the Qin army, the six countries east of Hangu Pass chose to cut the city and sue for peace. Cut five cities today, ten tomorrow, just in exchange for a short period of peace. However, the Qin State was greedy, and a short period of calm was followed by an even more fierce attack.
Su Xun told us that giving in is not a good way to solve the problem, but will encourage the greed of others. Excessive concessions will only make the villain gain an inch. As in the story of the sheep and the wolf, the wolf's greed eventually eats the sheep despite its attempts to calm things down. Don't give in too much, so as not to fall prey to the villain.
The symbiotic relationship between honest people and villains "complement each other". Without the existence of honest people, it is difficult for villains to stand out. On the contrary, without the contrast of villains, it is difficult for honest people to show.As one famous presenter said, the world is not black and white, but a delicate gray.
Black and white, in fact, are relative. In real life, there are both dark and bright sides in everyone, and black and white are intertwined, forming a harmonious "gray".
