Have you noticed a strange phenomenon that the more people with low self-esteem, the higher the level of narcissism they tend to exhibit?Behind this is actually a psychological defense mechanism at work. When a person feels that they are not good enough, they protect their self-esteem by exaggerating their strengths to cover up their shortcomings. This is why some people exhibit narcissistic behavior.
However, this narcissistic behavior often backfires and makes people feel even more uncomfortable and off-putting. So, how can you tell if a person has low self-esteem or narcissism?
First of all, it depends on whether the person's words and deeds are consistent. If a person exaggerates his merits in words, but his actions do not prove it, then the person is most likely hiding his inferiority complex.
Secondly, it depends on whether the person is able to accept the criticism and opinions of others. If a person is unable to accept criticism from others or always finds excuses to hide their inadequacies, then the person is most likely hiding their inferiority complex.
Finally, it depends on whether the person's self-esteem is too high. If a person rates themselves significantly higher than they really are, then it is likely that the person is masking their inferiority complex.
If there are such people around us, we can try to guide them to face up to their problems and change themselves positively.